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Hi, this is eyescreampichodu, i’m a 26( in a month) years old guy computer nerd who works as a software engineer at an mnc, i’m trying to switch jobs btw, would appreciate referrals, lol.

I’m from the north of Telangana, i live in Hyderabad for my job, i am a non vegetarian who drinks occasionally and doesn’t smoke.

I’m someone who keeps improving himself everyday, no matter how good something is, i will obsess over the minute details and try to fix them as well.

I’m slowly and let’s say successfully improving on that because it used to affect my deadlines and trying to achieve perfection.

I’m someone who loves to try new things out and that’s how i ended up as a foodie who’s explored tons of places and has made a list of great places and dishes 🥸, i want to travel the whole world one day and taste every cuisine i can, one day.

I started going to the gym last year and transforming my physical appearance and unfortunately got a tendon injury in my forearm which affected how much weights i can lift before it starts hurting but i am healing from it and slowly regaining the strength i once had.

Since i have to focus on my protein goals, i cook for myself a lot. People who’ve eaten my food ask me to do the cooking when they’re with me so i’d say i’m a decent cook.

My physical appearance is bear like ,right now. I’m 183cm(6’0 ft) and weigh 95 kgs almost and i am brown skinned.

I like stories as a pass time hobby and was obsessed with history for a while and now i read manhwas where the guy/ gal regresses into the past with their future knowledge intact and they’re fun, lol.

And stories where the guy/gal reincarnates into alternate worlds where there are different types of creatures, technology, rules etc where they will use their knowledge to make the whole world a better place.

I’ve been in 1 relationship in the past, they were my stalker, i met them on reddit, they’re getting married and so that relationship ended.

I’m an openminded guy, who doesn’t judge people and likes to hear their side of the story and would appreciate if you are the same and would like an empathetic person who doesn’t look down on people and treats people who are from lower class equally as well.

I am serious when it comes to tasks that i have to do but i’m the most unserious guy ever i’d say during conversations, i’d crack a joke in between when explaining a serious topic. and i’ve been told that i am quick witted.

I’d love it if you are a software engineer as well from your choice, because you love being one.

Anyway, if this sounds like your kind of vibe or you want to know more things, say hi. :)

Disclaimer: Some men just can't tolerate women with clarity. If you are so, skip it else read full post.

Some of you may not like the clarity I have or insecure about something but please don't attack me. These are my preferences only for my partner, I'm not saying these are standards everyone should have.

Virgins only, basically Zero Body Count. Don't message me to convince it all happened in rush. I'm expecting untouched guy as I'm untouched. Uff, society may have become too bad but if someone waits out of their choice for his/her life partner to experience everything legally and respectfully after marriage, is it right to say that the person may not be beautiful?(some commented this) Seriously guys? What if I say, beautiful ones are confident about themselves and wait for the right person without hooking up with random guys at random places and at random times?

Guys, you may not like if someone asks about your salary/assets. But hear from my experience, after talking for good amount of hours, some guys ask about dowry and details, they give so many reasons for why they are expecting dowry. I'm tired of this. If you are earning huge/have huge assets so you are expecting huge dowry. Please don't DM me.

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I'm against both dowry and alimony shit, also I'm not expecting divorce and all that mishap in life. I feel it's better to understand each other fully and then only sign up for life long commitment.

Please first read the post fully, I'm trying to mention as specific as possible. Please message me only if you meet the requirements. I'm a working person don't waste my time as well as yours.

Don't just say Hi/Hello. Only if you message me with the details that I mentioned below I will reply else I will just ignore your text.

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I'm 28F from Hyderabad, from the Reddy community. Didn't try matrimonial sites yet, first trying on reddit let's see where it goes. It may appear to you like AM setup, it is what it is. I just want to be clear and not waste both of ours time.

I didn't find it right to marry under 26 as I know and have seen how girls expectations and knowing what they want changes a lot with age and time. A girl under 26 expects temp stuff mostly but with age she views the world differently. This creates huge chaos at least in the cases I saw. So it was my choice to marry only when I get clarity. Also now trend is changing I guess, many in my circle married post 28.

About Myself:

Age - 28, Height - 160cm, Weight - 58kgs, Career - Working in IT, Lives in - Hyderabad, Native - Telangana

Food preferences - Vegetarian by birth(Never ate Meat)

Other habits - I don't drink/smoke. Never went to pubs/clubs. I'm a temple type of person.

Caste : Reddy, Religion - Hindu

A little more about me :

I don't know cooking, want to explore it after marriage. I stay with parents so never got chance to cook and also neglected it a bit but I'm developing interest and want to cook well very soon.

Till now spent all most of all my weekends spent at home only, hoping at least once I found my partner will travel with him.

I prefer home-cooked food and spending quality time at home over partying or going out frequently.

I value growing in my career, working towards my goals, and fulfilling dreams together as a couple. I believe supporting each other's ambitions is an important part of a strong relationship.

Expectations from the Guy:

**************************Non-Negotiables************************************

Only Telugu guys natives of Telangana/AP and Settled in Hyderabad. Please no inter-state/inter-religion.

Religion - Hindu only

Man with No women addiction/drinking/smoking/anger management issues/drugs/gambing/bettings/reckless trading with greed

Career - IT job / Sustainable business

Income - post wedding, I would bring to home 25-30lpa and looking for someone who can get 35-40 lpa

A big no for Long distance relationship

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Age : 28 to 31. Please if you are under 28, don't msg and give me examples of sachin/priyanka.

Height : 170-180cms

Weight : Not obese/ too thin. Fit guys with decently toned body. I like fitness both physically and mentally.

Caste - Hmm, will think of this based on overall personality

Eating habits - I prefer vegetarian but again will think of this based on the overall behavior

Someone with a stable career who is kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship. Mention your hobbies, interests and goals in life.

Mutual respect, honesty, and good communication are important to me.

If you think we might be compatible and are looking for something serious, feel free to send me a message with an introduction about yourself.

Age: 29

Gender: Male

Height: 5'8"

Location: Bengaluru, India

Willing to LDR: Yes, if there is a realistic plan to eventually be in the same city (Hyderabad or Bengaluru)

Dietary Habits: Non-vegetarian (eat it occasionally to meet my nutrition goals)

Language: Telugu preferred, open to other languages

Smoking/Drinking Habits: No / No

Smoking/Drinking in Partner: No smoking. Occasional drinking is ok

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Salary: ₹27 LPA

Willing to Date Other Religion: No

Why marriage:

I’m a strong believer in marriage as an institution and in monogamy. For me, marriage is ultimately about having one person who listens to you, spends time with you, cares about you and chooses to walk through life with you until the very end. (సముద్రం అంత ప్రేమ చూడాలంటే, జీవితం చివరంచుల్లోనే చూడగలం, అలా చూడాలంటే ఒక్క అమ్మాయినే ప్రేమించాలి 😄 ). Outside, all of us wear different versions of ourselves around colleagues, relatives, parents, friends and even strangers, often projecting the version we think people will accept. I want my marriage to be the one place where neither of us has to do that, where we can feel less judged, more accepted and completely ourselves with each other. It is all  about building a life together, creating a family, growing as individuals while growing together, and knowing that there is one person beside you who genuinely feels like your person. Its a spiritual friendship of two people. Hence I took this responsibility of finding my partner. 

A Little About Me

I’ve spent a much part of my 20's experimenting with my career, setting ambitious goals, making a few questionable decisions along the way, and eventually figuring out what I actually want. Today, I’m financially independent, building my career, learning new things and slowly becoming more intentional about the kind of life I want and build something of my own through my efforts rather than depending on family.

Financially: I'm more inclined towards saving and investing than lavish spending. Partly because I genuinely enjoy financial stability, and partly because I don't like being financially dependent on someone.

Socially: I'm an introvert with most people, but quite the opposite with people I'm close to. If I start teasing you regularly, that's probably a sign that I've become comfortable with you.

Culturally/Spiritually: I'm spiritually curious, but not particularly religious. I still enjoy Hindu traditions, visiting temples and spending time there, perhaps because of how I grew up. I'm still figuring out what I actually believe about God.

I enjoy being active like working out, yoga, marathons and walking long distances.

I actually enjoy shopping, although I buy one pair of dress while trying 10 pairs. (Bad at deciding) .I scroll Myntra like and instagram

I enjoy healthy debates about different topics and understanding why people think differently. I also like meaningless talk if I am talking to my person. (Rumours, Gossips, life, psychology, banters, reviews etc..)

I like listening to different kinds of music. I would have listened to a song thousand times but not remembered a single line from a song.

I enjoy travelling and exploring new places (given I have enough leaves and money). I like trekking and enjoyed surfing (planning to do it again).

I like photography, reading books and making/editing short videos. I don't get enough time for these anymore, but I'd like to get back into them. (Retirement goal is to do at least a simple film under my name as director and writer and DOP, touchwood.)

I figured out that I like dancing and singing (maybe my childhood nights spent watching Super Singer and Dhee dance show), but I haven't really found the right group of people who match my vibe. I go to dance floor on pub in office parties and sing in my room alone.

Things I'm still working on:

I'm not perfectly sorted person.

I overanalyse things, especially things that are outside my control.

I'm naturally reserved and have probably lost a few opportunities in life because I hesitated too much.

I'm a procrastinator.

I get attached to people and places easily.

I trust easily

I'm somewhat extreme in my approach to things. I'm either completely into something or completely uninterested. I'm trying to learn the middle path.

I get irritated when someone interrupts me while I'm deeply focused on something.

I'm sensitive, especially when something comes from someone close to me.

A lot of my motivation historically has come from guilt or fear( fear of dependency, stagnation or wasting my potential). I'm trying to replace that with healthier motivation.

Communication, especially with women, hasn't always been my strongest skill. I have had very few close female friends, so I haven't had as much experience understanding different communication styles. I'm aware of it and actively trying to improve.

What I'm looking from my partner :

Nothing too complicated:

Good sense of humour (I connect very easily through humour.)

Kindness and mutual respect.(not only towards me, but towards her family, my family and people around her)

Belief in marriage and monogamy( commitment, loyalty)

Honesty when the conversation is uncomfortable.

Willingness to work through problems instead of avoiding them.

Financial responsibility ( awareness about her family and her financial situation).

Mutual respect for each other's families.

Can think independently, financially, Socially, culturally

A willingness to keep growing individually and together.

who can try to understand and willing to adapt accordingly to conditions (without loosing her peace)

Have a pretty high threshold for teasing(its my love language)

Physically, I'm attracted to a good smile and expressive eyes, basic hygiene, dressing appropriately for the occasion and taking care of health and herself. and being confident in being herself.

Children: I want kids. I want to enjoy the fatherhood.

If anything here resonates with you, feel free to DM me.

Marriage is a long conversation - Friedrich Nietzsche. 

Let's just start with a conversation.

Maybe we click, maybe we don't, maybe we become friends., maybe this becomes something neither of us expected.

And yes, this is basically my me and my thoughts while I am writing this. ( I may change in some aspects in some point of time and mindset but potentially you can consider this as me)

Let's see where it goes. Fingers crossed.

Oye Ammayi garu, ninne… idi okasari chaduvu🥰

About Me (Quick Specs & Profile)

Demographics: 26M, Telugu, IT Professional working in Hyderabad.

Physical Stats: Height 5'9", Fair complexion, Weight around 76 kg, Athletic/Fit body type. Complete gymrat! 🏋️‍♂️

Preferences & Lifestyle: Non-vegetarian food lover (Biryani enthusiast 🍛), non-smoker, bike commute preference for daily rides 🛵.

Favorites: Big fan of Mahesh Babu movies 🎬 and love listening to soulful Telugu music on loop 🎧.

The Soft Side: Gym bayata nenu koncham poetic & expressive. Feelings plain words lo kanna oka small poem lo capture cheyyadam naku ishtam.

Kitchen Survival: Holidays lo mummy ki help chesthu nerchukunna cooking skills. Signature Biryani 🍛 baaga cheyyagalanu, & late-night cravings ki Maggie 🍜 quick ga ready chestha!

Naa Idea of Everyday Love & Partnership

Attraction is great, but honesty, respect, loyalty & consistency are non-negotiable for me. Life lo massive gestures kanna small everyday moments-e naaku chaala special:

Morning Routine: Daily morning nuvvu na kosam vegetables cut chesi isthe 🥕🍅, nenu fresh cooking chestha 👨‍🍳. Nuvvu na shirts ki buttons vesthunte 👔, nenu nee saree kuchilu & lines straight chestha 💫💃.

Rides & Office Drops: Nuvvu na bike backside kurchoni 🛵 sweet matalatho journey enjoy chesthu unte, neeku office drop ichesi 🚪, appudu nenu office ki vellipotha 💼.

Mid-Day Check-in: Afternoon busy schedule lo oka simple, caring call: "Tinnava?" 📱🥹

Evening Vibe: Intiki vachaka cool air enjoy chesthu 🌃 short ride, roadside dosa 🥞 and chai order chesi nene tinipistha. Neeku ishtamaina gaajulu, jumkalu, pattilu 💍👂💝 surprising ga techi ivvadam naaku chala ishtam.

Cozy Nights: Intiki vachaka warm hug 🤗, fresh ayyi kitchen lo funny conversations chesthu food enjoy cheyadamm. Night relaxed ga single blanket lo cuddle avthu movie chustham 🍿🎥.

When You Need Extra Care: Periods time lo 5 days WFH plan chesi 🗓️💻, fridge motham chocolates 🍫, ice creams 🍦, & comfort food tho nimpetha. Self-cooked food tinipisthu 🍽️, pain marchipoyela chinna chinna jokes chepthuu, full comfort & care istha 💆‍♀️.

What I Believe In

"Lips kaadu… oka ammayi kaallu ki namaskarinchadam kooda preme." ❤️🙏✨

Relationship lo partner comfort, individuality, dreams, & self-respect primary. Responsibilities ni "nee panulu" anukokunda "mana responsibilities" ga shoulder cheyyadame real partnership. Perfect husband ani promise cheyyanu, kaani real effort pettadaniki & life lo nee pakkane undadaniki ready ga unta.

Looking For

A Telugu woman based in/around Hyderabad who values emotional maturity, mutual respect, open communication, & meaningful companionship.

If you are tired of casual dating apps & feel our vibes match, feel free to drop a DM. Let's see if we click! ❤️

Key Rule Compliance Additions Included:

5+ Facts from List 1: Age (26), Gender (Male), Height (5'9"), Complexion (Fair), Body Type (Athletic/Fit), Job (IT Professional), Food Preferences (Non-veg/Biryani).

3+ Items from List 2: Movies (Mahesh Babu), Music (Telugu tracks), Commute Preference (Bike)

Disclaimer: this post is in self destruct mode and will disappear in 1 day

30M, doctor by profession, from a middle to upper-middle-class family. I’m a mix of both Andhra and Telangana. I’m the only doctor in my family and currently work in a hospital. I’m fairly grounded and value a simple, peaceful life over appearances or status.

For the sake of transparency, I earn 5L+ per month and am completely financially independent. I mention this only because I feel there’s nothing wrong in being upfront about where I stand financially, especially when looking for something serious. Also I’ve come so far through my own decisions, efforts and choices, and I’m grateful for that.

A little about me:
• 5'7", slightly fair
• Telugu is my mother tongue; I’m also good with Hindi
• Fitness is something I give a lot of importance to
• Slightly introverted initially, but I open up once I’m comfortable
• Love travelling and exploring different parts of the world, especially experiencing different cultures
• Completely independent
• From the open category, but I don’t have caste-based preferences
• I value honesty, mutual respect, good communication and emotional maturity

My current work life is quite balanced—roughly 9–5, no night duties, Sundays off and some Saturdays off. Medicine is my profession, but I don’t necessarily see myself doing it forever. At some point, I’d like to step away from it and pursue something I’m genuinely passionate about. I’d rather take that path based on what I actually want from life than simply continue with something because it is considered a secure or conventional career.

I’ve been through a serious, long-term relationship in the past which eventually ended. It took me some time to get over it. With time, I’ve reached a point where I’m open to finding someone again—this time with a more practical and mature outlook, with the intention of eventually building a life together and getting married.

I’m not looking for someone who perfectly fits a checklist. I’d rather meet someone with whom conversations feel natural, values broadly align and both of us can be ourselves.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM. We can start with a conversation and take it from there. If things go well between us, we can discuss the more personal details later.

Hey! I'm 21F from Hyderabad. Let's sort:-

Appearance:

Complexion - Brown(which I love about myself)

Eyes - Deep brown( which again I love about it)

Height - 4'9"(Let's not talk about it)

Hair - Black, Medium length

Occupation:

- Graduated last week.

- Worked at a company before.

- However, now I'm unemployed and looking for a job.

Interests/Hobbies:

- I love watching Anime. Especially Demon slayer. (Yes, I watch it everyday and cry every single time)

- Novels with a good plot. (The only plot is the male leads and their obsession with their women🤌)

- I do a little bit of crocheting.

- Love reading webtoons.

Ideal first date?

(Delusional one)

Candle light dinner at an island by the beach. And run around giggling.

(Let's snap back to reality)

A cafe with books? I think it's not too much to ask.

What I'm looking for?

I'm the kinda woman, who knows what she wants and very stubborn. Which sometimes can come off as stand off-ish (which I'm not😭)

I swear I'm a kind person ✋. (Jokes apart)

I have a RBF which is not helping in my case to make friends or give of friendly vibes. I'm trying! But, smiling without a reason is hard!

That's all about me. It must be pretty clear that I am chaotic in an organized way. And not revealing my type is something I did deliberately too. (Can't give the answers with the question paper) I don't want to force any expectations too.

Age preference: 21 - 30

End of sorting ; )

Edited: Good Lord! I expected the DMs but I didn't expect the efforts and thoughts y'all have put into it. I am grateful for the attention I am getting. Ignore this humble woman if I don't reply, will pray for y'all to get the special person you're looking for, I can see that you have so much love in yourself that you want someone to show it all. You've got this! Keep going! And remember— God loves you all!

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Okay, I've rewritten this post approximately 47 times in my head before actually typing it, so let's just go with it. 😂

I'm 23M from Hyderabad, working as a software developer.

And honestly, life has become a pretty predictable loop lately:

Work → laptop → gym → badminton → food → sleep → repeat.

Nothing terrible about it. I'm actually pretty happy with my life.

But sometimes I catch myself thinking...

"Is this really all I'm going to do after work every day?" 😭

That's probably why I'm here.

I'm looking for a girl who genuinely wants a serious, long-term relationship. Not a casual thing, not a situationship, and not someone to exchange "hey" and "wyd" with for three days before disappearing.

I'd like to eventually find someone I can actually build a life with.

But before we get into the serious stuff, here's what you're getting yourself into. 😂

A little about me

23M | 5'11" | Hindu | Software Developer | Hyderabad

I'm fairly introverted when I first meet someone. I'm not the guy who's going to walk into a room and immediately become friends with everyone.

Give me some time, though, and you'll probably regret it because I can talk way too much once I'm comfortable. 😂

I'm also into fitness and generally try to stay active. I enjoy going to the gym and playing badminton, although some days my biggest workout is convincing myself that I should actually leave my bed.

I also have a cat.

Which means, technically, I don't own a cat.

I simply pay rent in her house. 🐈

Things I genuinely enjoy

🏍️ Late-night bike rides

Probably one of my favourite ways to clear my head.

There's something about being on a bike at night, good music playing, relatively empty roads and absolutely no reason to rush anywhere.

🌄 Travelling

I want to travel much more than I currently do. Mountains, nature, new cities, random weekend trips — I'm pretty much always up for exploring somewhere I've never been.

☕ Café hopping

I like finding new cafés and food places, especially when the alternative is sitting at home wondering what to order for the 700th time.

🎬 Movies & binge-watching

I'm definitely a movie and series person.

If I say "I'll watch just one episode", there's a very good chance I'm lying to both you and myself.

🍥 Anime

Yep, I'm into anime too.

And before you ask — yes, I've probably already heard the "one more episode" excuse. 😂

🇰🇷🇨🇳 K-dramas & C-dramas

And here's where I lose points with the male population:

I actually enjoy K-dramas and C-dramas.

I'm not embarrassed about it either. 😂

So if you're a girl who watches them too, congratulations, we already have something to discuss.

What I'm looking for

I don't really have a strict age requirement.

I'd care much more about compatibility than a number.

What matters to me is finding someone who genuinely wants a committed, long-term relationship and eventually wants to build a life with someone.

Someone who's kind.

Someone who communicates instead of expecting the other person to magically figure everything out.

Someone who puts in effort.

Someone who has her own personality, interests and ambitions.

And someone who can be my partner but also my best friend.

I'd love to have the kind of relationship where we can randomly decide to go somewhere on a weekend, spend an evening exploring cafés, take a long bike ride, travel together, binge-watch something terrible, or simply sit around talking about absolutely nothing.

But I also want someone who's there when things aren't exciting.

Because relationships aren't going to be travelling and sunsets every weekend.

Sometimes it's going to be:

"How was work?"

"Terrible."

"Want food?"

"Yes."

And honestly, that sounds pretty nice too. 😂

I'm not looking for someone perfect.

I'm looking for someone who wants the same kind of relationship and is willing to put in the same amount of effort.

I want us to be able to grow together, support each other's goals, annoy each other just enough to stay interesting, and eventually look back at all the random little things we did together and realise they became some of our favourite memories.

So why Reddit?

Because apparently my current strategy of:

work → go home → repeat

isn't exactly producing impressive romantic results. 😂

And I'm probably not going to randomly approach a girl at a café and say:

"Hi, I'm looking for a life partner. Would you like to discuss our compatibility over coffee?"

So here I am.

If you're a girl from Hyderabad or somewhere close enough for this to realistically work, and you're genuinely looking for a serious, long-term relationship, feel free to say hi.

You can tell me your favourite movie, the last K-drama/C-drama you watched, your favourite travel destination, or just tell me something random about yourself.

I'll take it from there. 😄

And if you actually read this entire thing...

Respect. 😂

Maybe this is just another Reddit post.

Or maybe somewhere between a random conversation, a café, a movie recommendation and a late-night ride...

we find something worth keeping. 🫶

👤 Personal Details

• Gender: Male ♂️

• Year of Birth: 1995 (31Y)

• Height: 168cms (5'6")

• weight: 78kgs

• complexion: dusky (can be considered dark)

• Hair colur: Black and getting white hair​

• Eyes: Black

• Political leaning: Neutral

• Commute preference: Bike kani public transport use chesthunna ee traffic lo drive cheyadam ante thoda kasht hai.

• Current Residence: Hyderabad

• Native: Guntur

• Hobbies: movie buff (mostly TFI), listen all genre of music,

• What I enjoy mostly is spending time with my people (whoom I love)

💼 Career
• Profession : Project coordinator in a startup.

🎓 Education: PG in Construction Management

👨‍👩‍👧 Family Background
• Immediate Family Members: Father, Mother
• No. of Siblings: 0 but have 4 cousins(as per society) 3-sisters and 1-brother (who are​ siblings for me)
• Caste : Don't have clarity.

• Languages Known: Telugu(mother tongue), English, Hindi, little bit of Kannada & Tamizh
• Religious Orientation: Hindu
• Diet: Vegetarian (but consume egg cake not egg)
• Smoking: Smoked few times but not anymore.
• Drinking: I do drink but yearly once or twice
• Marital Status: Never married

• Willing to LDR: Not against it though, but would like to date person staying in Hyderabad.

🌟 Partner Preferences
• Age Range: 28-32
• Height Range: 5'2" and above
• Caste: I really don't care about it.
• Language Preference: Telugu Preferredbut open to date people who has other language as mother tongue (but you have to teach me your language and you try to learn Telugu)
• Religious Orientation: Hindu Preferred but open to others if you're vegetarian.
• Smoking & Drinking Preference: I'm okay with drinking occasionally but strictly no smoking.

📝 Self Introduction:

I am a hopeless romantic and wanna see samudramantha prema (you will know if you watched 🟠). But never dated anyone and never been in a romantic relationship. I'm not a perfect person but I'm always open to listen and correct myself if I'm wrong. I'm a one woman Man, if we're connected​ it's lifetime for me. I'm a person who will go to any extent for my family (took a career break to take care of my family). ​I don't really have Materailstic goals and prefer to live Minimalistically​, but will support you in every possible way to reach your goals. I like to listen all genere of music, but mostly listen telugu songs. I'm big movie buff but prefer TFI.

Inka anni ikkade cheppesthe manam matladukovataniki em vundadu kada so ikkaditho aapesthunna.

💡 Minimum Expectations:

I'm here to find love of my love who is vegetarian, empathetic, emotionally mature, honest (tell truth even if it hurts me), communicates openly​, believes in family values and morals, most importantly who believes in family's always and forever (IYKYK😉).

End Note:

Please DM if you are willing to commit for a lifetime marriage.

Anyulaki (who are here for playing prakns and making funof others) vignyapthi "ayya life lo chala debbalu thinna dentlo kuda ante thattukolenu kabatti dayachesi naku exemption ivvandi".

Honestly, I don't even know if people are actually looking for all the things everyone writes in these posts 😂

“Meaningful conversations, long drives, random walks, exploring places, watching sunsets, growing together…”

Sounds pretty, sure. But do people actually find that here?

I guess I'm about to find out. 😂

I'm 23M, 5'8", skinny, and working as a software developer.

And yes, I'm skinny despite genuinely loving food. I want to try everything, but unfortunately I'm also ridiculously picky about taste. So I guess that's why I'm still skinny. 😭

Most of my life right now is basically work, laptop, sleep, repeat.

And honestly, I don't want it to stay that way.

I love mountains, nature, long drives, random walks, exploring new places, movies, books, light novels, manhwa, anime and tech.

I can spend hours thinking about how nice it would be to go somewhere, take a long drive, explore a new place or just go for a random walk.

But then reality hits:

"It's already late. I have work tomorrow."

And there goes another plan. 💀

Even if I want to take a late-night drive, there's always that little voice in my head reminding me that I have to wake up in the morning and go to work.

So maybe I need someone who's a little better at ignoring that voice than I am. 😂

Someone who'll randomly say:

“Stop overthinking. Get ready, we're going.”

Someone who can drag me out for a walk, convince me to take that random trip, try a new cafe, explore some place we've never been, or just go somewhere and see where the day takes us.

I don't need someone to completely change my life.

But I think having someone who puts in the effort, keeps up with me, and actually wants to do things together can change a lot.

And I'd want to do the same for her.

I'm also probably not the best at texting initially. 😭

My conversations can be painfully dry when I don't know someone. I'm trying to get better at actually asking questions instead of accidentally ending a conversation with:

"Oh nice 😂"

But once I'm comfortable, good luck getting me to shut up.

I'm into books, light novels, manhwa, anime, tech, movies, random internet rabbit holes and trying new things whenever I actually get myself out of the house.

I'm not expecting some perfect person or some movie-like relationship.

I'd just like to meet someone where both of us are willing to put in the effort.

Someone who can be there for the boring days as much as the fun ones.

Someone who'll say, “Let's go somewhere,” when we've both been stuck in the same routine for too long.

Someone I can explore things with, laugh with, annoy a little, and eventually look back with and think:

“I'm glad we didn't just stay in our rooms that day.” 😂

Maybe we'll click.

Maybe we won't.

But I think it's worth finding out.

So if you're someone who likes exploring, trying new things, random conversations, good food, spontaneous plans, or simply doesn't mind dragging a slightly work-obsessed developer away from his laptop...

Hi. 😂

• 23M | 5'8" | Software Developer
• Skinny despite loving food 😭
• Mountains & nature > crowded places
• Love long drives, walks, movies & exploring
• Books, light novels, manhwa, anime & tech
• Terrible texter initially, trying to improve 😂
• Looking for someone who actually keep up with amount of effort i put
• Someone to experience more of life with, instead of always saying “maybe someday.”

And yeah… this got pretty, pretty long. 😂

I'm also getting into game development recently.

So, if you're a player who actually read all the way here… congratulations, you made it to the end. 😂🎮

You can drop a comment or say hi. 👀

Only Telugu ammayilu please.

Enduku ante? Isn't it obvious...

Telugu ammayilu ante konchem special feeling anthe.

Hello there. 👋

So... who am I?

Just your everyday normal guy. Not the smartest person in the room, and definitely not the dumbest either.

I am 23, 5'5", around 63 kg, a B.Tech graduate, and currently working as a freelancer from home.

Let's just say I earn decently enough to have some confidence in my life choices.

Random: Wanna guess my field of work?

Hint: It doesn't belong to IT... and it's not the usual non-IT management job either.

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I can be straightforward at times, and I kind of have a permanent poker face.

And when I say "it's nothing," I genuinely mean it's nothing.

Random: Recently bought a bike and I am already in love with it. 🏍️

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I eat both veg and non-veg. I am fine with either in a partner as well, although I do have a slight preference for someone who eats non-veg.

I drink occasionally and don't smoke.

If you drink, I guess I will have company. If you don't, my wallet will probably thank you.

Smoking, however, is a strict no.

Random: Monna Sankranti ki Andhra poyina... mast enjoy chesinam.

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Religion-wise, I am Hindu and looking to date within the same religion.

Bonus points if you're a Reddy. It isn't a requirement, but it will just makes things easier for both of us.

Random: I don't have a sister... (Cousin sisters? Plenty.)

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I genuinely don't care about your height.

Even if you're taller than me, that's completely fine.

Completely unrelated: Zendaya and Tom look so cute together.

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As for hobbies... I will just leave you with a few keywords:

Cricket, movies, anime (not much these days), and drawing (whenever I randomly decide to be consistent).

I am also not much into music. The only exceptions are parties and long journeys.

Random: Hyderabad lo beach kavali ani protest cheddama? 🌊

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What am I looking for?

Someone who is:

Telugu

Hindu

20–24 (18+ obviously)

Looking for a genuine, long-term relationship

Kind, respectful and able to communicate

I am not here for random connections that go nowhere. If we click, great. If we don't, no hard feelings.

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I don't mind carrying a conversation, so being a dry texter isn't automatically a deal-breaker.

But if all I am going to get is...

"yes"

"no"

"huhhh"

...please, for the love of everything, let's retire the word "huhhh" before we even start.

If you're genuinely busy and can't text much, that's completely fine. I understand people have lives.

But if you're part of the "one text per day" gang as your permanent communication style... let's do both of us a favour and save each other the trouble.

Another random thought: My favourite colour is GREEN. 💚

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Random: How many of you think I should just abandon Reddit dating and let AM (Arranged Marriage) take over?

This is probably my last try. (I know it's too early to give up, but damn... this post took a lot of creativity out of me.)

AM, I am warning you... I am coming.

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Random: How many of you think I should change my username from JustANormal_F_Dude to JustRandom_F_Dude?

Also... if these random sections have already annoyed you, let's do both of us a favour and stay away from each other.

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Peace out!!!