r/Hyderabaddating

Hey everyone! Deepika here, I am 18 and here in Hyderabad for my degree. Don’t have many guys in my college so thought of giving it a shot here in reddit!

A little about me:

Age: 18

Height: 5'5"

Body Type: Fit

Food Preference: Non-vegetarian

Living Situation: Living independently in Hyderabad

A few things about me:

I enjoy going on long rides, be it car or bike.

I love watching movies, especially Indian ones, can be any language though.

I am Telugu and based off from Vijayawada. Though my mom is from Delhi so quite a mixed ethnicity.

What I'm looking for:

A Telugu guy, who is preferably elder in age because I’ve a thing for mature men lol. Maybe doing a job?
I would like a man who can be romantic but also as honest as possible.

Do lemme know what your ideal first date could be!

Hi,
I’m 34 and will be 35 soon. I’m not sure if this is the right place,but I wanted to give it a try.It’s been more than a year since I separated and moving on has been quite a journey of self reflection and acceptance. I’m not looking to rush into anything serious, but i would like to meet someone to talk to, where there’s mutual curiosity and attraction and a genuine curiosity in knowing eachother

I work in IT consulting as a lead data analyst in Hyderabad. Im 5:10, dusky brown color , meduim built 77kg and reasonably fit. I’m inherently curious and question a lot of things. I’m not political. I lean towards philosophical ideas, existential questions and self awareness. I enjoy conversations, jokes and just talking about anything. I love fiction be it movies, series or books. I love getting lost in a good story. ‘The man from earth’ is one of my favorite movie. A book that disturbed me; The Death of Ivan Ilyich by leo tolstoy. Playing cards with friends and family is a favorite pastime. I prefer visiting beaches and places with beautiful ocean views.

So that’s a little bit about me. If you would like to message tell me something about yourself, your interests, and what you are looking for. Willing to exchange photos when things feel a bit secure.

Writing a post to find my future husband 👦 Seeking a virgin, emotionally mature man for a long-term relationship leading to marriage in 2-3 years. Telugu Guy only

About me :

Age: 28 (will be 29 in next month)

Gender: Female

Height: 5 ft

Location: Hyderabad

Willing to LDR: Yes, if communication is consistent

Dietary Habits: Non-veg

Language: Telugu

Smoking/Drinking Habits: No

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Caste : SC (personally I don't believe in caste)

Willing to Date Other Religion: No

I don't believe in god or any superstitions. I'm very practical & logical. I never been into any relationships. Indipendent women. I like philosophy and psychological & self help books. I'm working on my startup I'm into health space. Career focused. Focuses more on mental & physical health.

Personality-wise, I’m fun & friendly, expressive, and communicate openly. I value emotional safety, honesty, and mutual respect.

I’m looking for a calm, drama-free, growth-oriented partnership.

Non - negotiables in Man:

1. Virgin (preferably no past relationships or even if you had make sure you overcome your ex & healed from that relationship)

2. If possible business/entrepreneurial background

-- You should genuinely like what you do

--Not doing it due to parental or societal pressure.

3. Height 5.6 & above (if your okay with my height)

4. Emotionally mature, jovial, and good at communication, Telugu Guy only

5. Family-oriented and respectful towards future partner

6. Drinking & smoking - strictly No

7. You must be physically fit & emotionally stable (if u can't handle your emotions like anger, irritation please stay away)

8. Age preference between 27 to 31

Bonus : great if u have good smile 😁 & nice voice (because I have both)

I always believe relationships shows us another heaven when we meet right person. I'm here waiting for that right person. Let's grow together as a pair explore this amezing life .

Not interested in casual chats or time-pass. If you meet the above and are serious, send a proper introduction about yourself, your work, and your values.

Hello,

I am based out of Hyderabad. Love to read, write, paint and dance but I am not very good at any of it. Clearly struggling with my self-esteem.

Have had an adventurous life full of good and bad surprises, and I am still struggling to accept everything life has thrown at me.

That said, I think I am finally ready for companionship that builds slowly but surely.

About me:

Monogamous, though not quick to jump into a relationship.

Not looking for kids or marriage

Left-liberal stuck in an underpaid corporate job, but content with whatever I make.

Less than 5 ft tall

Curvy but not fat. About average.

Long, wavy hair that are brown in just the right light.

Dark, boring eyes.

ND, burnt out, depressed, CPTSD. I prefer someone who knows how it feels.

Sun-kissed complexion

Feminist, Pro-Marx and Ambedkar, Anti-caste, Anti-borders, Anti-religion, Anti-nation, Anti-war.

I like it when people are passionate about the right causes.

I love art, cultural theory, music and bits of philosophy (the Sartreian kind, not the self-help variety)

Kink-friendly.

Ex-smoker/420.

PhD in humanities (still regret this).

Boring, introverted. Love nothing more than building a small, private world with my partner.

My ideal partner: shares my values, and atleast some diagnosis, is looking for the same kind of relationship, wants their partner to learn and learn with them, willing to accept fault and speak the truth, willing to be in the same city at some point, wants to change the world, however they can. I don't care if we have the same hobbies, but the ideals matter. Prefer men my age or older only.

Madness always welcome as long as it comes with compassion and empathy.

Happy to connect with other like-minded folks to start a revolutionary book club too.

Also, would like to learn how to ride a scooty if you're up for that.

I am 31M. Looking to meet someone and see where it goes.

Height - 5'8"

Weight - 67kgs (slim, not muscular)

Color - fair

Food - Non vegetarian.

Working in MNC. Calm and composed. Don't like negative emotions like anger, ego.

Movies - Watches all genres and all language movies.

Politics - BJP supporter.

Travel - Does long road trip atleast once a year.

Wants to meet in-person and get to know each other, no endless online chatting. Open for meet anywhere in hyderabad.

39F | India | Divorced | No Kids | Looking for a Life Partner
Hello,
I’m a 39-year-old divorced woman with no children, looking for a man who is genuinely ready for marriage and a lifelong partnership. I’m not here for casual dating, situationships, or temporary companionship. My intention is simple: to find someone with whom I can build a peaceful, meaningful life.
I’m an author by profession and a thoughtful person by nature. I take life seriously—not in the sense that I don’t enjoy it, but because I believe life has purpose. I try to live intentionally, one day at a time, appreciating the small moments while keeping sight of the bigger picture. I believe growth never stops, and the best relationships are those where two people help each other become better without trying to change who they are.
I’m someone who values honesty, loyalty, kindness, emotional maturity, and responsibility. I appreciate meaningful conversations, quiet evenings, a good sense of humor, and people who keep their word. I believe love is more than chemistry—it’s choosing each other every day through respect, trust, patience, and commitment.
I’m looking for a man who is emotionally available, dependable, and ready to invest in a marriage. Someone who values family, communicates openly, and wants a relationship built on friendship as much as romance. Life brings both beautiful and difficult seasons, and I’d like a companion with whom I can share both—the victories and the struggles, the laughter and the silence.
My past has shaped me, but it doesn’t define me. Divorce taught me resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of choosing a partner whose values truly align with mine. I have no children, and I’m entering this chapter with hope rather than bitterness.
If you’re someone who believes marriage is a partnership where two people care for one another, encourage each other, and continue growing together, I’d genuinely love to hear from you.

If you message me, please introduce yourself beyond age and profession. Tell me about the kind of life you hope to build, what you value most, and what marriage means to you.
Wishing everyone here the courage to keep believing that meaningful connections are still possible.

Few details about me

\- Age: 20.5

\- Gender: Male (Straight)

\- Height: 5'5"

\- Location: Hyderabad

\- Occupation: Final-year B.Tech (ECE) student

\- Languages: Telugu, English, Hindi (currently trying to learn Tamil 😄)

\- Diet: Eggitarian (recently started eating eggs). I'm completely okay if you eat non-veg.

\- Smoking/Drinking: Nope.

\- Long Distance: It would lead to LDR only(ig i wld further do an mtech)

\- Religion: Prefer someone from the same religion. I'm spiritual and a bit agnostic rather than traditionally religious.

\- Caste: Vysya, but I'm open to other castes too.

About Me

I'm an ambivert who's curious, ambitious, and pretty chill. I value honesty a lot and believe communication solves most problems.

I'm in my final year, so life mostly revolves around upskilling, and trying to become a better version of myself. Outside that, you'll find me playing a bit of cricket, exercising at home, singing along to songs (whether I'm good or not is up for debate 😅), or occasionally losing track of time on mobile games.

I started watching series last year: squid game, breaking bad, dexter(inka avvaledhu),scam1992, its been many months i didnt watch any..idk why i stopped watching..konni necessary breaks vachinay le.

I'm passionate about electronics and i am trying to explore this.

Mountain climbing fascinates me sooooo much.. It would be even better if I had someone special beside me for that adventure.

Looking For

I'm looking for a serious relationship if we genuinely connect.

Someone who is:

\- Kind and loyal

\- Emotionally mature

\- Ambitious and working towards something

\- Decent looking and cute

\- Honest and respectful

Preferences

\- Age: 19–22

\- Height: Around 5'1"–5'5" (anthakante ekva unnollu nannu prefer cheyyaru😂)

\- Education: Doesn't matter. Passion matters more.

\- previously relationship lo unte okay, Kani if possible, I'd prefer someone who hasn't been physically involved before. Just a personal preference—no judgments towards anyone. 😊

Random Things

\- Never been in a relationship before.

\- My love language is quality time... and playful flirting (only if you're comfortable with it 😌).

\- My best friend would probably describe me as good thinker.

\- Perfect first date? Maybe visiting a peaceful temple, followed by coffee and long conversations.

\-TFI banisa ni kadhu , but i do some fanwars(with frnds anthe, saradaga), i love memes..

If any of this made you smile or you think we'd get along, feel free to text. Worst case, we have one good conversation. Best case... let's find out.

NOTE:

dont message if ur not serious to build a relationship.. XYZ-ships(except relationship)

Hi People of Reddit,

I am just tired of matrimonial sites and the parents first approach, I am looking for someone to date and hopefully marry.

About Me

Male,29 years 6 months, 5’10", Hindu,108kg. I am overweight, I am working on it and it's something I feel insecure about.

I realized down the line cooking food, washing clothes, and arranging the kitchen are more important than everything else. The chores sustain/support the structure of a relationship, living with boys in PGs, didn't teach me that for sure, when I finally had to learn that it felt like a brick to my face, so yes, I know that feeling.

Profession: Team Lead & Escalation Manager (In Cybersecurity) earning more than {var.salary} (I don't think it's a good idea to share that here.). Location: Hyderabad, East Godavari (A place I call home among others) Lifestyle: I don't smoke, occasional drinker - for work parties, you know how it is.

Hobbies & Interests:

• I love games like Factorio, loving thinking games too, can't get enough of Dota2. I built my own PC to fuel my addiction (Just kidding)
• I love traveling, taking spontaneous trips, and blasting through the Highway on an ADV (Adventure Bike 🚴‍♀️ and it's not an XPuluse, but really wish I got that).
• I love reading too, but with my workload and games it's on the backburner.
• I’m also a huge dog lover - My Golden Retriever is my soul mate, hoping you will take its place 😉😉😉.

Family Background

• I was born and brought up in Vijayawada (for some time anyway), I traveled for my education and lived in Hostels, hate the Chennai heat and humidity lol.
• My mom and dad are English Professors, Sister is into Writing textbooks for Cambridge Curriculum for English 😎 (a real job that pays well - yes, I was just as confused when she first said what she does for a living)
• Yes, I am the idiot who thought coding was cool while they were super into the English and Literature.

They are very supportive, kind and understanding, but don't get caught mispronouncing certain words around them (Mom and Dad) 😈😈😈

What I’m Looking For

Age: 25–32. Female

• I am looking for someone to share my daily chores and life stuff with.
• Someone to share the cooking on the weekend, I love it when there is someone in the kitchen while I cook and then shove them dishes in the freezer lol.
• I love people who read and watch Indian movies as a butt joke and not seriously. (If a hero shoves a guy and he bounces like a ball, tell me it's not funny)
• Someone to share a laugh with, and bitch about work. (obviously 😉)
• Go on long drives
• Sit at home and chill, play with the Dog.
• Someone who is free to share her mind.

Caste: I don't have any problem with anyone.

Disclaimer

• I live in VSCode, so markdown is my go-to, I am happy that Reddit Supports it fully. I did not use AI to format or write this.
• It's not as clean or polished but it's from my heart.
• A bit of a stickler for formatting too, makes me really happy to see markdown on screen 😜

If you like this vibe, hit me up with a DM.

If you like this vibe, hit me up.

Age: 19

Gender: Male

Height: 5'10

Location: Hyderabad! I do my college in Chennai :)

Willing to LDR: Depends on how well the relationship goes :)

Profession: Student! Currently in College

Dietary Habits: Vegetarian :) but I eat eggs, so Eggetarian I guess lol

Languages: Telugu, English, Hindi

Smoking Habits: No

Drinking Habits: No

Religious Orientation: Hindu

Future Plans: Nothing steady as of yet, just hoping to land a respectable package through placements :)

Introduction:

Keeping it simple! I'm looking for a serious relationship, one where we can feel safe and absolutely positive with one another. Beyond simple physical contacts, I want us to truly feel like one :P

I'm currently heading to my 3rd year in college! Kinda spent the large majority of it enjoying the freedom and not necessarily dipping my feet in the dating space so I'm looking to make something sweet of the time I've got left!

I'm about as erratic as you can get with a person, very bouncy (internally and externally) and I'm looking for someone who'd loved to match that vibe/connect on an energetically, chaotic yet organised level- whoosh.

I'm doing CS 😵 (obviously) and I've got relatively good grades thus far 😓 🤞

Personality wise, I'm an INTJ if you follow that and I love anything that breaks me mentally! :) a fun quiz, challenge, whatever you wanna call it.

Trying to keep my details really out there!

My Flaws (keeping it honest):

- I can be a little clingy/offer too much energy so yes, I do want us really connected :))

- I used to have a never give up, tireless attitude but college's culture has kinda seasoned me into a work when there's pressure only type a dude 😓

- wouldn't say I'm a short tempered person, but when it cross a line, I explode ;)

What I'm seeking:

> Someone who's relatively mature, but bouncy and communicative with me :)

I really want the relationship to connect and I don't want it to be forced at all!

Obviously expecting mutual affection, honesty and just a good vibe, I just want it to click! :))

End Note:

So yeah, that's all really! Do drop me a text if you're interested in texting and seeing how things go :)

Hey everyone!

I'm a 27-year-old guy currently living in Hyderabad and working in the software industry. I thought I'd give Reddit a try instead of relying only on dating apps, hoping to meet someone who's genuinely looking for a long-term relationship.

A little about me:

Age: 27

Gender: Male

Height: 5'9" (175 cm)

Body Type: Average, currently working on getting fitter at the gym.

Profession: Software Engineer

Food Preference: Non-vegetarian

Living Situation: Living independently in Hyderabad

A few things about me:

I'm an introvert at first, but once I'm comfortable, I can talk for hours.

I enjoy bike rides, traveling, trekking, and exploring new places.

I love watching movies, especially thrillers, action, and comedy.

I believe the best relationships are built on honesty, trust, respect, and good communication.

What I'm looking for:

I'm looking for someone around 23–29 years old who is genuinely interested in a serious, long-term relationship. Someone kind, emotionally mature, and willing to build something meaningful together.

If you think we'd get along, feel free to send me a message. Looking forward to getting to know you. 😊