28F | Telugu | Hyderabad | Looking for My Man

Disclaimer: Some men just can't tolerate women with clarity. If you are so, skip it else read full post.

Some of you may not like the clarity I have or insecure about something but please don't attack me. These are my preferences only for my partner, I'm not saying these are standards everyone should have.

Virgins only, basically Zero Body Count. Don't message me to convince it all happened in rush. I'm expecting untouched guy as I'm untouched. Uff, society may have become too bad but if someone waits out of their choice for his/her life partner to experience everything legally and respectfully after marriage, is it right to say that the person may not be beautiful?(some commented this) Seriously guys? What if I say, beautiful ones are confident about themselves and wait for the right person without hooking up with random guys at random places and at random times?

Guys, you may not like if someone asks about your salary/assets. But hear from my experience, after talking for good amount of hours, some guys ask about dowry and details, they give so many reasons for why they are expecting dowry. I'm tired of this. If you are earning huge/have huge assets so you are expecting huge dowry. Please don't DM me.

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I'm against both dowry and alimony shit, also I'm not expecting divorce and all that mishap in life. I feel it's better to understand each other fully and then only sign up for life long commitment.

Please first read the post fully, I'm trying to mention as specific as possible. Please message me only if you meet the requirements. I'm a working person don't waste my time as well as yours.

Don't just say Hi/Hello. Only if you message me with the details that I mentioned below I will reply else I will just ignore your text.

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I'm 28F from Hyderabad, from the Reddy community. Didn't try matrimonial sites yet, first trying on reddit let's see where it goes. It may appear to you like AM setup, it is what it is. I just want to be clear and not waste both of ours time.

I didn't find it right to marry under 26 as I know and have seen how girls expectations and knowing what they want changes a lot with age and time. A girl under 26 expects temp stuff mostly but with age she views the world differently. This creates huge chaos at least in the cases I saw. So it was my choice to marry only when I get clarity. Also now trend is changing I guess, many in my circle married post 28.

About Myself:

Age - 28, Height - 160cm, Weight - 58kgs, Career - Working in IT, Lives in - Hyderabad, Native - Telangana

Food preferences - Vegetarian by birth(Never ate Meat)

Other habits - I don't drink/smoke. Never went to pubs/clubs. I'm a temple type of person.

Caste : Reddy, Religion - Hindu

A little more about me :

I don't know cooking, want to explore it after marriage. I stay with parents so never got chance to cook and also neglected it a bit but I'm developing interest and want to cook well very soon.

Till now spent all most of all my weekends spent at home only, hoping at least once I found my partner will travel with him.

I prefer home-cooked food and spending quality time at home over partying or going out frequently.

I value growing in my career, working towards my goals, and fulfilling dreams together as a couple. I believe supporting each other's ambitions is an important part of a strong relationship.

Expectations from the Guy:

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Only Telugu guys natives of Telangana/AP and Settled in Hyderabad. Please no inter-state/inter-religion.

Religion - Hindu only

Man with No women addiction/drinking/smoking/anger management issues/drugs/gambing/bettings/reckless trading with greed

Career - IT job / Sustainable business

Income - post wedding, I would bring to home 25-30lpa and looking for someone who can get 35-40 lpa

A big no for Long distance relationship

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Age : 28 to 31. Please if you are under 28, don't msg and give me examples of sachin/priyanka.

Height : 170-180cms

Weight : Not obese/ too thin. Fit guys with decently toned body. I like fitness both physically and mentally.

Caste - Hmm, will think of this based on overall personality

Eating habits - I prefer vegetarian but again will think of this based on the overall behavior

Someone with a stable career who is kind, respectful, emotionally mature, and genuinely looking for a long-term relationship. Mention your hobbies, interests and goals in life.

Mutual respect, honesty, and good communication are important to me.

If you think we might be compatible and are looking for something serious, feel free to send me a message with an introduction about yourself.

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u/Live_Confidence4 — 4 days ago

What's wrong with men?

Note : I said worst for horny not loneliness. Why would anyone get horny if they don't have their partner? Just in air people get horny with no attraction towards anyone directly or in mind? I don't have anyone in my mind so I don't get. As simple as that. How others get horny is none of my business.

I just asked for suggestions on how one spends weekends. Got many weird dms as I mentioned I'm a female.

Telugu speaking people read what this guy texted me. But why? Why are men thinking that they can misbehave with every woman?

u/Live_Confidence4 — 6 days ago
▲ 13 r/Hyderabadgirlshangout+2 crossposts

F here from Hyderabad, just started exploring

Guys, I'm just new to reddit. Don't say posted for karma and all, I don't get anything by earning karma.

Disclaimer : Please I'm not looking for any dating. Just got tired with my boring weekend so asked for suggestions. Please don't DM asking for a date. Least interested in all that stuff. Please boys, don't message me saying fun and all. Be in your limits.

Wanted to know this : Hyderabad weekend spots or activities

For the last 7yrs literally almost every weekend I stayed at home only. I'm in my late 20's and introverted by nature, and I can't move out much. But, now I'm tired of living this way. Sometimes, it's getting unbearable as I stayed at home literally for 7yrs all the weekends.

What do you guys do on weekends? How and where do you spend or enjoy the week off?

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u/Live_Confidence4 — 6 days ago