u/Silent-frequency191

It's not been long enough since I've joined Reddit - Precisely 9 days. However, in this limited period of time I've come across several posts on this sub which suggests that BHU guys are really desperate to find a girl. Their posts give a feeling which might not sound too safe for women out here and that could be one of the reasons why women ain't dating men a lot in BHU.
Banaras Hindu University is a premier institute of India and i am of the opinion that it has some of the top minds from this country - both male and female. I'm not generalising this however because I've seen several average students also getting into BHU for some course or the other.
Having said that BHU guys need to relook at their approach strategy. They need to be more careful about what image are they giving out to girls and ladies here.

A girl/woman would prefer to talk to you and go out with you and spend time with you if she feels "SAFE". I'm not saying you'll abduct her but your actions will make her scared as shit and make her uncomfortable to the core.
She would prefer someone harmless, easy going, soft inside, and definitely someone man enough to respect their boundaries.
A MAN is a true gentleman when he commands respect and also gives respect to the woman irrespective of the fact whether he is dating that woman or not.

Consider yourself as the best version of you and then try to approach someone. Always respect NO and don't rush into anything.
Take time, understand the person, their interests and what displeases them.

I'm sure you'll get who you're looking for if you work on some of the basics!

Are BHU women/girls open to meeting/dating single men with an age gap such as corporate professionals having work ex of close to 10+ years, is fit and fine and has food decent looks too?

How's the dating scene at BHU? Is it like too bad?