how to make my boyfriend be meaner during sex?
hello!! i (19f) kinda have been having an issue regarding me and my boyfriends (20ftm) sex life.
we are really compatible and i do really enjoy our sex but ive been wanting to explore a bit more. my boyfriend is such a sweetie and hes been trying his best but hes very vanilla and im also his first ever sexual partner so this is all very new to him.
im really into a person being mean to be during it and just being very dominant and assertive. i know it sounds odd to people but its basically just a degrading kink 😭😭..
the problem is that even tho my boyfriend tries so hard to be able to talk to me like that he cant manage to stay in the role and he says that i just look at him so happy and cute that he cant help but break character. ive been trying to stay more serious but whenever he does manage to be dominant and mean i just get so happy and blushy i cannot contain my excitement. 😭 this is so embarrassing to talk about but i do want him to also hit me and grab me and manhandle me but hes so scared of hurting me and hes so gentle to me!!
i was wondering if anyone has advice on how to be able to keep yourself in character and how my boyfriend could improve on this whole thing. he says he likes it and its my dream to implement it more into our sex life but hes just such a gentle angel 🥲