What are we doing to keep our partners happy sexually??
I’m 6 months postpartum, we cosleep, my baby feeds on demand, and the only time she drinks expressed milk is when I’m at work (two-three times a week) I have zero sex drive. Like absolutely nothing. I don’t even want to be touched. Even the idea of a peck on the cheek from my husband makes me cringe. Now, I love my husband and I want him to be happy but if I have to hear him talk about how he misses having sex one more time I’m going to fucking lose it. I’m totally okay with him watching porn and masturbating, which he does but he still wants to actually have sex. Weve had sex three times since I gave birth. So what are we doing about this?? Do I just suck it up and do it like two-three times a month or what?? I don’t know what seems worse, having sex or listening to how badly he wants to have sex. It’s like, I get it, you want to get laid but I my old body back, alone time, complete silence, and a blunt but we can’t all have what we want. I don’t know what to do anymore.