Mi marido no llega al clímax cuando tenemos relaciones sexuales.
We've been together for six years, and we're young (under 30). We're happy in our relationship, but I haven't been able to get my husband to climax during sex, only when he masturbates on his own. When I masturbate him, I can't get him to climax either.
He told me he likes it when I say “sexy things” to him during sex, that he likes soft dom, and that he likes it when I take the lead and tell him what to do. But when I do that, I feel like it’s not enough, and even though he likes it, it doesn’t seem like he’s absolutely loving it. I need him to be crazy about me, to want me, and for every word I say to make him moan... But it’s not working. He’s really embarrassed to talk about his “fetish,” so I don’t know what to do.
I don’t know what to say to him, and it’s frustrating because I get the feeling that he wants to have less and less sex with me because I’m not giving him what he needs.