Is it classist if I skip the lift with male work help in it?
I live a small society complex which is often considered on mid end lux in my sector so here people like everything on their door step, hence delivery guys, work help etc are here 24/7 day and night .
Im 19 , Sometimes when I'm wearing shorts/cute tops or wearing a bathrobe and costume underneath and I see the lift has male workers who are not older so boys or maybe 25 below . I skip it . I don't make a scene or ask to step out . Or when they are waiting with me I don't move and let them go.
Again I don't do this will all of them instantly, if I feel their stare on me for too long or if the guys look at me and then at each other , that's like siren going off in my head 🚨🚨 and I skip that lift.
I DONT DO THIS WITH AND WOMEN OR GIRLS and DOG WALKERS, infact i step out to give them space going up cause they have work to do and I can wait for couple minutes more .
So is it classist of me ? We have two lifts .. one is of residents and other is common but no one really implements that, should I be the bitch and say "this is residents only" ??
Please help me with my dilemma 🥺🫰🏻
EDIT- TYSM TO EVERYONE ..you guys really made me see clearly through this situation, the conclusion - they don't really care , and it's alright if I skip the lift and I'm overthinking it 🫰🏻💗
(note- I was lowkey afraid of this sub cause of the hot bs in other groups where they said this sub is hateful etc etc and all but this was the most geniune experience I have ever had , such a nice and kind community. Also the fact I felt safe posting this here without a second thought of being judged even though I never even been this active here🫶🏻.. I'm pinning this group on my search bar and blocking the rest . 😭LOVE YALL 💗🫰🏻)