I feel judged for being single in my 30s
I was always the girl who stayed away from men, even during university. I tried to dress modestly, even though deep down, I wanted to dress up, feel feminine, and express that side of myself. It was something I struggled with for years.
Now, years later, I find myself on dating apps talking to men who don’t seem serious, and honestly, I’m tired. Sometimes I wonder, how can finding love be this difficult?
I’m not a model, but I know I’m a decent-looking woman with a good heart. I don’t understand why my love life has turned out this way, or why finding someone who genuinely wants a serious relationship feels so difficult.
For those who have been through something similar, what advice would you give me? How do I stop feeling discouraged and find a genuine, meaningful relationship without losing hope?