

Am i supposed to stay on payload on attack?
So i am 40 level on dva and 25 level on doom, i really like these 2 dive charachters because i like diving :D i am a support main originally. 1 thing that stood out to me with playing tank for this season is sometimes people tell me to push cart as tank instead of diving and taking space but when i watch streamers they go in a lot so i dont really understand which one am i supposed to do?
heres a vod if anyone is interested 52ZSTQ
This is emerald 5, doom was banned so i was playing dva i also go ram if i think i am doing bad. Anyone higher than plat i am open to advice. My bap this game was flaming me the whole game which is why i afk sometimes to tell him i would appreciate if others would push with me too, luckily my cat was always pushing with me, bap was telling me to stop pushing and stay on cart also on third point of attack i used my ult to have a second life and got sierra as well but my bap said i wasted my ult there even tho i survived and killed 1 in process. Even when we won the game he told me i was a terrible tank and very bad even tho i only died once and he died 6 times.
When i play dps or support which i have more hours on those roles i never get flamed but on tank even on my really good games people flame me for the things like them dying xd i feel like a babysitter on tank and it discourages me to play this role. When i win as support or dps it makes me happy but when i win on tank its terrible because i usually get flamed the whole game while winning. Idk i will probably stop maining dva and doom soon and go play dps or supp instead because i am a sensitive person and getting flamed effects my mental health. Other tank mains are very strong mentally i appreciate yall.