Am I in a toxic relationship? Should I leave?
So my fiancé (22m) and I (23f) have been together for 4 almost 5 years. We have an almost 2 year old child together. The good days are great, I feel loved and cherished but when it’s bad it’s bad. If he has a bad day at work he’s snappy at me. He will push our son away if he does the smallest things (wiggles in his lap while he’s gaming, knocks his glasses off). He hates when I don’t have sex every time he wants to he gets really pissy and has yelled at me a few times over it. He’s never really been physical but there was one time he shoved me because he was really mad. If the baby cries or fuses during the night he will get very upset and start yelling shut up or go to sleep. He smokes every day because it “helps his mood”. He has said a few times that he’s a little jealous that the baby gets all of my attention. I just don’t know and I think I might be delusional and need someone unbiased to look into this because I think I love him too much and think I’m overthinking like he says I do