u/SleepyOrgasm

TNR-ing the outdoor/stray cats at my apt complex?

There are at least 4 cats that I see outside my building of my apartment complex somewhat regularly. I dont know if any of them are fixed, but I’m almost certain one was pregnant because she no longer looks horizontally distended in her belly. She looked just about ready to pop when I first moved in a few weeks ago. I don’t know if any are outdoor cats that belong to someone or true strays.

That being said, what are the ethics of getting a TNR situation happen? Momma presumably had her babies or got dewormed, leaning towards babies. In my opinion, outdoor cats aren’t considered solely one person’s pets. They live and know the environment outside, and affect it similarly as true strays (negatively). They likely get attention from a lot of other tenants too because cmon they’re practically neighbors. I am the biggest cat lover and animal activist you could reasonably meet and if you have an outdoor cat to prevent even more strays that mess up the environment (*list all sources ever), they need to be fixed. I’ve heard some fighting very loudly at night, and seen two of them fighting once. I’ve also seen one literally in the tree right outside my balcony trying to catch a bird

thoughts?

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u/SleepyOrgasm — 22 hours ago

Medical district students/young adults who don’t know anyone?

I moved to San Antonio to be with my partner of 7 years who goes to the med school a couple months ago. He makes friends via his classes and stuff but I dont know anyone here, and it’s especially hard since I’m not in the med/nursing/dental/professional school where all the younger people are and the UTSA student population is a little too far from here to see the same people often. I’m a 23F white girl and kinda shy (bad combo when you also have an rbf but are lonely). if you’re willing to have a new person in your group or if you’re alone like me, please send me a chat! I’m also going to start going to the Golds that are nearby (friends and family student discount 😎) so hopefully I’ll meet some people soon.

I work medical-adjacent and I have 5 years of experience in various parts of the medical system, so thats an easy segue to connect through. I will not argue this, no MAGA. I don’t fuck w that.

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u/SleepyOrgasm — 4 days ago

Social gyms in the NW/medical district?

Just moved to the med district and thought maybe i could kill two birds with one stone by going to a gym where people chat more often. every individual gym is different so I’m really asking for specific locations lol. I have a Gold’s membership via my school but I’d be willing to go somewhere else. Am 23f

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u/SleepyOrgasm — 12 days ago