I thought of something as an art of selfie. How selfie can be something really artistically and beautifully made. Which recognizes itself and doesn't hide that it's a selfie, but expresses and manifests itself as true self, beautifully. Does someone have some thoughts, ideas, resources, what could be the guiding lines and principles?!
I've read one post here about someone's girlfriend suffering having no friends. And the recommendations of not his responsibility and for her to start taking a therapist, but she doesn't really have the means for therapist. So just leave her? not his responsibility. Such an easy way to get disposed of people when they have problems. Slight inconvenience, and getting disposed of a person.
So I thought, and been thinking recently, as I am taking psychologist. So the only way to get someone listening to you is to pay money. And once the money ends no one's ready to listen. What a cruel world. So I've been struggling to find love and closeness, so I maybe should buy it too. Which I've been holding myself from, cause I wanted something genuine if to say so. But what's genuine today already, isn't it. Pay for pay. Straightforward, not opaque.
But initially where it comes from, when people soak in too much. By trying to be good just and kind. Then suffer. And find no one to talk to. Conversation - for pay only. So if not letting yourself be offended, and kick back every single time instead, there'd be less problems of bearing suffering and having someone to talk to you only for pay, in order to vent out. You won't need to seek for compassion, you'll just be getting things and kicking things.