"You're not trans you just need to get laid" tf
Hey, I'm 16 and out for about 1½ years now, censored this post just in case. I put it in as Trabsphobia just so no one gets triggered, but I'm kinda looking for advice.
My mom recently told me that some "old person we can't cut out that easily" said something along the lines of "Oh she's not trans, maybe if a guy would f*ck her properly she wouldn't imagine having to be one".
First of all, that's messed up to say about a 14/15yo (wich I was at the time that must have happened).
But that's not what this post is about, I kinda wanted to ask for advice. My mom said she didn't really wanted to tell me who said it and I think she's trying to protect me and I get that, but now I'm really kinda curious who'd say something like that. She said she would tell me if I really wanted to know but that I was better of not knowing.
Obviously, I'm making assumptions about who might have said that (I'm currently thinking maybe my grandparents based on what my mom said, and they really weren't that supportive).
Now the question, am I really better of not knowing and just assuming and probably accusing the wrong person in my head, or should I ask my mom who it was?
My mom is totally supportive btw, just told me what someone else said to her after I came out.
(Sry if there's anything wrong with the language, English isn't my first language)