New here and need help
My 28 year old son shows all signs of being bpd. In the past we were concerned he was bipolar and found out today he has been taking lamictal as well as wellbutrin for the past 9+ months. He has always been emotionally unpredictable and you never knew when he would go from being happy to angry/offended. 4 years ago he had a THC induced psychotic episode where he talked to himself as a woman and told me he was trans. The following day he said it was a hallucination and that he didn’t think he really was. He has continued to smoke weed, takes classes for a masters degree but is not working. Today we spoke to him about employment and informed him our financial support was ending. He stated agreement and understanding and then got angry about all of his past regrets over 10 years and every slight and things that he blamed, many of which never happened, then he told us he is trans and has been on estrogen and t blocker but we don’t know for how long, intermittently suicidal and that his childhood is to blame. We were accepting, calm and redirected the conversation back to the subject of getting a job and being on his own. The conversation ended with love on both sides. I am just so sad and scared. Do I think he is trans? Maybe but I am realizing that whether he is or not he is way more unwell than we realized.i don’t know what do do.