Does my boyfriend like me, or is he afraid of being alone?
[18 F] and [20 M] in a relationship for 10 months. When we first started dating, he watched porn at least 4 times a week. Because of past relationships I felt insecure and asked him to stop doing that, despite us having a great sex life even with the porn. I know hat if nothing affected our relationship, that porn isn't an issue. However, now being later in the relationship, he doesn't watch porn at all. We have sex maybe once a week.
He asked me to gain weight and since then I've gained 20 pounds. My boobs and ass are much bigger, but so is my jawline and stomach. I dont know if he likes that, but again, he asked me to. I was 103 lbs at the beginning of our relationship, now I am 130 lbs. (My goal was always 120, I am trying to lose the extra weight, but I'm on antidepressants)
He was going through a rough time around 8 months and lost all of his friends. He saw me everyday and was very loving. Ever since he stopped watching porn, he has been nicer to me. The sex life at the time (8 months) was great, at least 3-4 times a week.
We're 10 months now, and sex once a week.
We don't live together, but I'm at his house most of the time. The past month he had asked me to go back home for a day or two, cause he wants "alone time."
I know alone time is important and VERY HEALTHY, but its his sudden want that confuses me. He hasn't done that in months.
THE ISSUE:
My guess? He got a new friend and that's why.
So his friend [18 M] has been coming over a lot recently, video games, getting high, all thr fun stuff. I've been apart of some hangouts and we all had a blast. But he asked me to go home so he could hangout with his friend alone. This is abnormal and new.
He has also (i know I've said this a lot) only been having sex with me once a week. I initiate A LOT. Morning, night, you name it. I even bought vaginal pills to make me taste and smell better.
Still barely any sex.
I dont understand. I have checked his phone (all possibilities, like cookies, screen time etc.) And he hasn't touched porn in months.
So I have multiple questions.
Is it normal for his to SUDDENLY want alone time?
Is he watching porn and i can't see it? (He has a laptop, but its been dead for months.)
Is he just less in to me now that he has a guy friend?
Should I even be worried?