u/Smooth_Error_1802

So I ended things with a Capricorn man because he told me he wasn’t sure he saw a future with me. I didn’t want to keep investing emotionally into someone uncertain, so I distanced myself. But after the breakup, he kept calling me almost every night. Eventually I started talking to him again, but more as friends because we genuinely had strong chemistry.

Then tonight, out of nowhere, he told me he downloaded Tinder because he wants sex and wants to find someone to sleep with. He kept repeating it throughout the conversation and even told me I should also go have sex with someone. I didn’t react emotionally and just wished him luck, but it honestly confused me.
What’s throwing me off is that when we were together, we never had sex because he strongly believed in not having sex before marriage. So hearing this now feels completely out of character and honestly disappointing.

Im very confused why he needed to tell me these things?

And im less upset about the tinder part and more confused by how drastically different he suddenly seems

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u/Smooth_Error_1802 — 16 days ago