Do I need to do more/ Vent
My wedding is in early June, and I have around 30-35 guest. My wedding is simplistic and a garden style reception.
I’m not sure if my expectations are warped because of my algorithm has been nothing but wedding “needs” . I just want a fun and eventful party for us and our guest considering some are traveling 5 hrs.
(Please give me grace)
My wedding is only for 4hrs
I have:
A buffet style dinner👍🏼
DJ 👍🏼
A Shoe Game👍🏼
Mariachi that will play during cocktail hour👍🏼
Alcohol drink served by the bar… they’re serving drink tickets but honestly.. I’m thinking it’s just 30people maybe I could do an open bar because who wants to have just 2 drinks… so 🤨
I am in the works of having:
charcuterie board, grazing table for cocktail hour.
So my question is …DO I NEED TO GET EXTRA:
Like a Photo Booth ….extra entertainment or food item.
Or just keep my drink tickets
Do I need to reserve a block for my guest for their hotel.. maybe it’s too late for that…
Now to Vent… please move on if you like.
I haven’t been able to go to the doctor due to the lack of insurance. No doctor - no antidepressants.
I know ,I could have easily used our wedding funds to cover it but I’m dumb. And I didn’t think of that. But hey! I am medicated now! 4 weeks before the wedding 😅
So, the fact I went unmedicated for a bit, Ive been stressed the fuck out. Like panic attacks, and I have had a terrible way of regulating myself. Anyways, my fiancé family has really done a lot by helping . For example by getting the reception. Which I’m spiraling right now as I speak, like I wish we could have the DJ till later honestly…maybe we could have the reception past 8 idk…. Since it’s only from 4-8.
Anyways..They have ordered our photographer, and the DJ. I mean all with our wedding money. Wedding coordinator.
They really went out of their way to help.
But I’m like I feeling guilty. Like we have exhausted them.
But yet I’m worried about that our guest will have a lousy time. Because the party end so soon AT 8. It’s not an open bar…
I mean there are other bars we could go to since it’s downtown…
Okay I’m sorry… the more I type I just feel ungrateful.