I feel like there’s quite a few of well known bobs burgers lines like Linda saying “stay out of my room!” I was wondering about other lines, so what do you guys think is a iconic/well known line in bobs burgers!
Hello! Please let me know if this isn’t the right subreddit. I’m working at a cat shelter nonprofit and we have been having trouble finding the best software for us. We want something where we can schedule volunteers and adopters, have the ability to have reoccurring appointments for volunteers, appointment reminders, plus a way to have a progress bar for adoption applications so adopters can see where they are in the process.
It would be a simple app but I’m not sure what to use or where to start I have no experience with programming or coding except for those coding games assigned in middle school.
Is there any suggestions on how to start this project, what softwares I can use (preferably free) as a beginner
Thank you in advance!
I’m a bit newer to bobs burgers and I’m rewatching it currently and s6 e1 is making wonder if bob and Linda’s first meeting story is consistent I’m probably misremembering but I that that episode is or one of the first times we heard about how they first met but I wasn’t sure. We see a bit more about their early relationship before the kids but not much during their actual dating period which I think would be funny to see
So my question is:
Is the story Linda told in s6 ep 1 the first time we heard how they met? If it’s not is it consistent with the first time it was told?
Hello everyone please forgive me if I’m posting this to the wrong subreddit. I’m a 23 yr old female who has been in a relationship with someone from high school. We got together around 2018 broke up early 2019 and then got back together I want to say during the spring/summer of 2020 and have been together since. We moved in together in 2022 and have been living together since. He is a 24yr old male. Throughout the years things have been very rocky mainly due to our sexual part of the relationship. He’s the only person I’ve been with sexually and I don’t really enjoy it and he would want to do it a lot and when he’s horny and I pretend to not notice he would sometimes when I’m asleep or trying to fall asleep he would try to touch me or would take his pants off and try to put his privates in between my legs. He’s done that multiple times and I usually will move around a lot tossing and turning to make him stop and it works but I always hear him get frustrated about it. I’ve been extremely distant when it comes to sexual things because of this and he makes me feel bad for not wanting to do more with him. I’ve talked to my doctors I’ve tried changing my birth control and everything but from the beginning I never really was into it. When we moved in together things were ok and our relationship was good but he kept job hopping and kept quitting his jobs I think what made me the most mad that I can’t shake from my head was when he quit his job right before we were moving to a bigger apartment. He doesn’t spend wisely and I’m stuck paying all the bills while he only pays most of rent. When he spends more than he said he would a month and then get mad at me because I don’t have enough money left to add to rent because I’m paying all the bills and for groceries. He stopped paying for groceries completely. I’ve brought up spending habits so many times because he won’t stop spending and he says he’ll stop and save but doesn’t.
Last year I just realized I wasn’t happy and I tried to break up with him. He had a complete mental breakdown tried to leave in the middle of the night to “disappear”and I caved and we talked and things were ok for a while but for me things just wasn’t the same he always asks for so much from me and I’m just so drained to give it to him. I can’t even shower by myself the only times I’m able to is when he’s not at home. Even then he would get upset if I do shower without him. He says he likes to shower together because it’s a good way to spend time together. When it comes to sex he says he finds it as the best way for us to connect with each other. But I don’t feel the same way. If I don’t show him that I “desire” him he gets upset and feels like I don’t love him he wants affection and attention constantly and especially in these past few months I just don’t want to even be around him. I tried to break up with him a second time and I caved and that time he got irritated saying if I try something like this again we will be done completely. My breaking point for that need to break up was the way he treats our cats I hate how he treats them and I’ve tried to stop him so many times but he just won’t stop. He always tells me that I need to work out but when I say “no I’m ok” he will lecture me about how working out would make me feel and look better. He gets mad when I don’t properly converse to him but then doesn’t like anything I say. He smokes and drinks and I don’t smoke I don’t plan on it personally but he tries to pressure me to take edibles or to try it with him. When it comes to drinking I drink here and there but not frequently and he gets upset because I’m not drinking as much as he drinks. And he’ll get moody about how he bought alcohol (most of the time with my money) that I might like and he’s the only one drinking it.
I’m very passionate and enjoy my job which is very rare for many I’m lucky to be doing something I enjoy. My job is on call and I work long hours. Sometimes when it’s supposed to be my day off I have to go into work and I’m ok with that. But for him he gets upset about it to the point where I don’t even want to talk about my day. He doesn’t like his job and in all honesty he doesn’t like any job he has and I’m ok with him job hopping as long as he gets a job before quitting the current job. But I’m technically the bread winner. My therapist (who I recently started seeing due to this relationship) said that it’s possible he could be envious about not only me enjoying my job but making more money than him. A little before we moved in together we did plan it and save for it. I ensured and still ensure that I’m the primary contact for apartments, bills, the cats, etc. we don’t have a joint bank account or credit account the only things we are both listed on is the phone plan and apartment lease but I’m the primary person on there. I can drive and I have a car he doesn’t drive and always wants me to drive everywhere. I’m a very independent and self sufficient person. He knows that and doesn’t like it when he says things like how if he left I wouldn’t cook food or if he left I would have to take the trash out and I said yeah I would and will do those things. I do all the chores anyways regardless of my work schedule and he doesn’t get things done in a timely manner like folding clothes I will get everything washed at the beginning of the week and it won’t be done until the following week or longer if I don’t do it. Sometimes when he’s bored he’ll clean up but I’m the one that does basically everything. Only thing he consistently does is take the trash out.
I would see my cousins spouses and see how they look like they’re happy to be at a family event how they interact with our family members and everything creating a relationship with them but my boyfriend doesn’t. He stays in the corner on his phone he barely talks to any of my family members and just gives off “I don’t want to be here” vibes and I know my family members feel it too. He didn’t even come with me to my grandfathers funeral even when im grieving with family I see my cousins spouses there holding and comforting them and he’s just not here. He doesn’t have a relationship with his family and even though my family tries to make him feel welcomed and like he belongs. He always says that it’s not his family. It genuinely makes me sad and envious of my cousins because while their spouses play the games and help out he’s just sitting there. I have to feed him I have to make sure he’s ok. I have to sit with him and make sure he’s ok and not feeling out of place. I’m practically babysitting him and it’s embarrassing. Half the time he forgets my birthday. My birthday recently passed and I didn’t say anything about it to see if he remembered. When I was driving him to work in the morning (which I do everyday) he looks at his phone and I guess the notification popped up that it was my birthday and that’s when he said happy birthday. He complains that he doesn’t know much about me but he doesn’t ask. In all honesty I don’t even know something’s about myself anymore.
For the past month or so I’ve come to the realization and made the decision that I just don’t want this relationship anymore and I made plans to get my own apt and everything. At the end of May we had a fight because i was doing an event for my job on a Saturday that was technically my day off. He was upset about it even though I tell him these things and when im working frequently. He then does his usually moody thing and mopes around and then goes outside for a walk. While he did that I called my mom and talked to her. I think he overheard my conversation and put two and two together and realized I want to break up. He asked if I didn’t want to be with him anymore and I said no. He then throws a complete tantrum. I’m trying to explain that I’m drained and not happy anymore. But he started to breakdown. We started to talk a bit but I was just overwhelmed and just went to work. When I got back he acted like things were ok like we just had a fight and that he was sorry. I told him give me a week to think about everything and he said ok. Then he just again acts like things are ok for that whole week. I told him that on Sunday I’ll make my decision before going to my mom’s house for a few days. I kept going back and forth back and forth on what’s the right decision even though in my head I knew the answer was that I want to break up I’m just worried about him and where he would go. I even offered to move out so he can keep the current apartment for the last few months if the lease but he said that he would leave he would stay. When Sunday came I asked if he wanted to talk that morning or after I get back from work. He said he wanted to do it now in the morning. I told him I wanted to break up still and reiterated that I love and care about him and that it wasn’t an easy decision to make. He threw a tantrum in the bed he was saying no and kicking his feet saying the last few days have been so good and how things are just getting good for us. I was able to hold my ground and stuck with my decision. Then he started to get dramatic and made his way to the patio door to go outside I stopped him because I don’t know what he’s going to do to himself and I was starting to get overwhelmed even more because he kept saying how he’s going to be a homeless man on the bench in a park and how he’s has no one and how he doesn’t want anything from the apartment because it’s pointless because we shared everything and everything has memories. I started breaking down after that because I care about where he goes. He kept saying how he’s losing everything if he loses me and how he has no one else and I told him to talk to his mom and friend to see if he can stay with them and he just wouldn’t stop talking about how he’s over with and how he loves me so much and that this decision came out of nowhere. But I literally tried a few days before to break up and after telling him to let me think about things I told him to think of a plan if I decide I do want to break up and he didn’t do that. I just couldn’t listen to him anymore so I went to work and while at work not only did he walk to my job check to see if I was at my desk and then leaves he kept spamming me asking why I wanted to break up that it came out of nowhere and I gave him my reasons like how I’m just not happy anymore and my therapist said that was a good enough reason. But it wasn’t the amount of times I wished he would hit me or cheat on me so I can feel like I have a valid reason to break up with him. He just didn’t stop. He even said his mom even said she doesn’t understand the reason why I want to break up. And then he asked to talk after I leave work. I agreed. He basically did what he did over text and debunked everything I said and how he wants one last chance to try and make things work and if it doesn’t work he won’t put up a fight and will accept my decision. Everyone wants me to leave saying that I have to stay strong. I have so many strong woman around me who has been through and gotten out of bad relationships and I feel like I’m failing them and wasting their support because I keep falling back into this relationship. I told him to let me think about things and to not text me unless and emergency for the next two days while I’m at my moms house. And he didn’t. But before I left he just automatically assumed that I’m giving him one last chance. I don’t know what to do anymore. I thought about giving him a chance for the next two months before our lease ends. I’ve even thought about moving out when he’s not at home. I just don’t know what else to do to leave. He won’t stop. I asked myself do I want to live like this forever and I don’t. There’s a guy that has been visiting my job and he seems very nice but he’s actually genuinely interested in my work and my passion for this job and it’s such a night and day that I think it opened my eyes up even more.
I just don’t know how else to leave him without being sucked back in. I can hold my ground but for how long until he breaks me. I stopped wearing the promise ring he gave me which he’s Been a little upset about and I didn’t really talk to him much today and yesterday but I don’t even think showing less and less interest will
Work. I feel shackled in this relationship. Again I’m sorry if this is the wrong subreddit to post this to. And I’m sorry this is so long. I left quite a few things out but this was long enough. Any advice?