AITAH for breaking up with my bf of three years over him constantly bringing up what my aunt did to him?
Full story: Nearly two years ago, Me (45) and BF (46)were in my hometown for my dad’s funeral. So, while I’m trying to handle my dads funeral and burial and all the family stuff with my sister, my aunt and cousins got out the Trump VooDoo doll and we’re teasing him with it and giving him shit about who he voted for. I was not part of this and was only aware of the hooting and hollering and laughing as they were all drinking and I was busy dealing with my other aunt and sister. It had been a long day. I later found out what had happened and that I had betrayed his trust, that he was upset I told my family who he voted for, and that I should have come to his defense (I had no idea what was going on), and he would throw it in my face any time I would bring up anything that I was upset about that he did or if he hurt my feelings and I wanted to talk about it. I had apologized profusely way back when he first brought it to my attention and never brought him around my aunt again and never told my family or anyone anything he told me. Yet it would still be brought up during any disagreement. I was burying my father. AITAH? Did I over react?