my friend only messages me when they need something… am i being used?

i’ve noticed a pattern where one of my friends rarely checks in, asks how i’m doing, or starts conversations unless they need a favor, advice, a ride, help with something, etc.

when we do talk, they’re friendly, so i can’t tell if i’m overthinking it or if our friendship has become one-sided.

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u/Soheyl-Powdown — 25 days ago