u/Solid-Heron-5455

I’ve came out of an on and off relationship at the beginning of this year. I gave it some time to really jump back into the dating scene and just last month I downloaded a few dating apps and I know that some of them arent the best. But what I have noticed nowadays that lots of people have been really short, dismissive, and just dont want to have any interest in the conversation. I mean im not the best looking or anything. But it just seems like everytime I ask what went wrong or if Im being boring they all give different answers. I dont know if im being shallow or what. But it just kinda sucks because years ago, everybody was so interested in talking. Like i try to make conversation it just seems everyones super picky on here. Its just tough and i think im done paying attention to online dating. Its not good for my mental and being rejected. Do you think that things have changed a lot over the years or can anybody relate?