u/Solo_wayne_2918

I 23M feel like I have lost my feelings towards my girlfriend 23F after meeting and crushing on a new girl.

So I have been in a relationship with my current girlfriend for four years now, and I’ve never felt attracted to anybody else. Always been happy in this relationship.

So recently I’ve been on a trip with some of my friends and a friends friend, was also there who I was meeting for the first time. Ever since the trip I’ve been thinking about that girl and our conversations.

During the trip, I felt like she liked me (my girlfriend was on the trip too) and we had few good conversations and I also felt her glancing towards me a few times. Other thing is, I know that she is out of my league, and I’ve only been on the trip with her for a few days, but ever since the trip I cant stop thinking about her.

*After this happened, I feel like I’ve lost my feelings and my love towards my current girlfriend and have only been thinking about being with the new girl. I don’t know what to do or how to get over her.*

How do I get over this?

Edit : Iam not saying I dont love my girlfriend anymore. I am actively trying to choose her but its just that Iam getting a lot of subconscious thoughts about this new girl which I dont like either.

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u/Solo_wayne_2918 — 4 days ago