u/Soolaraa

Any advice

ASC there was this guy I had been getting to know for a little over a month. We met on Muzz. He seemed genuinely respectful, kind, and like a good person overall. We were aligned on a lot of things, and I started thinking this could actually lead to something.

He was consistent, showed interest, and the last time we spoke, he even told me he had told his mom about me. He also voluntarily shared a lot of personal information, even though I didn't share as much because I'm a more reserved person.

One thing I noticed was that his consistency changed. Instead of reaching out every day, it became every other day. I didn't think much of it because he was the one initiating about 80% of the conversations. Whenever we did talk, though, he was still engaged and seemed genuinely interested.

One day we talked over the phone, and he said he'd try to call me later to continue. Later that night he asked if he could called, but I was busy and said give me a couple of minutes but then he said no worries will call you later. He sent another message really late even tho he know that we don’t talk that time, by then it was really late, and I was exhausted, so I didn't reply to that message.

Now it's been over a week, and neither of us has reached out. It feels like everything stopped because of this one miscommunication, and I don't know what to think.

If he was genuinely interested, why hasn't he reached out or tried to clear things up? Am I overthinking this, or does it seem like he lost interest?

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u/Soolaraa — 7 hours ago