Anyone know of groups/events for practicing small talk?
so this is kinda embarrassing to admit but i genuinely struggle with casual conversation. like real bad. if its a meeting or something with a clear topic im fine, i can talk about that all day. but the second its just... chatting, my brain just goes blank. someone asks "hows it going" or we're just standing around waiting for something to start and i have NOTHING. like zero ideas of what to say.
ive read the generic advice (ask open ended questions, talk about the weather lol, etc) but knowing the theory doesnt really help when im actually in the moment, you know? i think i just need actual practice with low stakes people who arent gonna judge me for being awkward.
so wondering if anyone knows of:
toastmasters style groups but for casual convo instead of public speaking
meetup groups specifically for social skills practice
any apps or discord servers built around this
even just like... regular hobby groups that happen to be good for chatty practice
honestly anything helps at this point, even if its something you tried that didnt work for you, id like to know why. just trying to find a place where the whole point is practicing this stuff instead of feeling like im the only one who cant just "wing it"