My younger brother is stalking me
I (48f) have a younger brother (46m) that has been stalking me for at least a year now. I USED to have an addiction to opiates but I’ve been clean and sober for a little over 4 years now. I’m not ashamed of being an addict. I know it was all my fault and I don’t blame anyone else. Today at work, I saw a person I used to get high with. He told me he was 1 year 8 months and 3 days sober. So I totally congratulated him and told him how long I had been sober. I didn’t care who heard. But anyways this past year my brother has taken to calling my job and the clinic I go to to maintain my sobriety quite often. He will call my job and or go up to my job and ask if I’m working that day. I know this because my manager has told me and she knows I go to the clinic because her wife goes there as well. We’ve seen each other there and talked about our addiction’s etc. My clinic has told me that he has called multiple times trying to get info from them but they’ve told him they can’t confirm or deny that I’m a patient there. It has caused quite a bit of anxiety in me and pissed me off to be honest. I’ve told him to just ask me if he has any questions but he just has to go behind my back. I’ve pretty much been low to no contact since I’ve learned this. I quest I’m just ranting. I don’t know what to do to discourage him from doing this as it’s quite embarrassing. I could understand if I was newly sober but it’s been over 4 years now. So idk what to do other than cut him out of my life. He tries to act like he is so perfect and I’m such a loser for my past. It truly breaks my heart but idk what to do. I’m sorry rant over