5 years now what
I have nowhere else to go to talk to someone. I've been with my AP for 5 years. Things have been pretty smooth but not without bumps. I see them maybe once a month in person but talk to them everyday. We are both married, this is their second marriage and they have 3 kids from first marriage. Everything was good up until about two weeks ago,.. they stated that they were thinking about divorcing their spouse for other reasons (spouse has no idea I exist that is not the reason for divorce). They stressed a social media break would be coming soon to handle things. After they expressed that, we were fine for a little over a week. We spent some time together and things were good.. and then BOOM they drop the social media break because now she is catching something and thinks this is the reason for the divorce, but it's not. He says he isn't ending it with me and left it at that, it's been 6 days and I'm trying to not reach out in any form just to keep things safe. I keep seeing him pop up on FB . I assume he meant a social media break with me, but how long will this be? I can wait for him , it's fine... but it sucks! Any input?