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Medyo naiinis na ako lately sa mga tao na biglang lalapit tapos ang unang tanong is “anong work mo?” then sunod agad “pwede pa-refer?” or “ipasok mo naman ako jan.”

Parang ang dali lang para sa kanila, pero hindi nila nakikita na may proseso yun at hindi rin naman basta-basta na pwede mo lang isingit kahit sino.

May iba pa na sobrang personal na magtanong like ano exactly ginagawa ko, anong niche, and minsan pati magkano sahod. Hindi naman ako uncomfortable mag-share minsan, pero yung tone kasi parang entitled or expected na sagutin mo lahat.

For me okay lang magtanong, pero sana may respeto din at hindi parang obligation ko i-share or i-refer agad.

How do you usually handle this kind of people without sounding rude?

I have been working for 10 years now. I do not think I am the smartest or the fastest learner. But I noticed one thing about myself.

I am very consistent when it comes to attendance and discipline. I rarely miss work and I am always careful not to be late. Even now that I work from home, I have never been late and I still stay focused during work hours.

I used to think being a slow learner is a weakness. But over time I realized that being present every day and staying consistent also matters a lot. Little by little, you still improve.