I wasn’t raised like this
Do you think it’s OK for my now boyfriend/father of my child’s family(25M) to be see so close to his first situation? I understand respect level for the sake of the child that came out of it. However the hanging out, running errands and coming to the parents house to just connect every other day is weird to me and I was NOT raised like that.
TL;DR I was raised the mother or father of a situation should stay away because that’s respect and loyalty to that family’s son/daughter. Helping a child out of situation like that should always be done directly and thats it.
It’s uncomfy and it makes me distrust his whole family. I feel like they are trying to make me accept it rather than respect my feelings and I cannot stand that. Why would I want my child around that if the mother won’t show the same love I show for her daughter? How do I know? I used to help this chick out of love of my now boyfriend.
It makes me regretful and sad I have to bring my daughter into a loose family like this when she deserves seclusion/loyalty/tradition. It’s something I HAVE to live with forever and it’s just building resentment for everyone on his side.
I would like valuable advice…