u/Spiritual-Ask-1531

simula nung may anon sa opc group dumami yung mga pantangang post??? we’re enrolled in college kiddos wth is that???????????

We’re both 23. Magkatrabaho kami before (abroad). We did the thing because we’re both drunk and bored sa abroad and we sweared that ‘that thing’ is for abroad only, long story short, we both fell in love. Umuwi kami ng pinas kasi tapos na kontrata, at first month, he’s so good, there’s an assurance, I can feel that there’s love, can’t say if it’s genuine since ang off ng starting point namin. Umuwi kami ng pinas with a same setup. Akala ko naman, sa tagal na namin naguusap, icoconsider na namin both as BF and GF. I was shocked when he randomly say na nililigawan nya ko. Did you know the feeling that I am just a question away then I am truly yours? Ganun beh. I asked him “bakit ka pa nanliligaw eh nagawa na natin lahat ng ginagawa ng mga taong nasa “real” relationship? Sagot nya: He wants to build himself first before committing to me.

Di ko alam kung sinong may problema samin pag dating sa label eh, almost 4 months na kaming naguusap we really getting to know each other, but I am tried of being confused of these situation. Ni hindi ko nga alam kung situationship, courtship, or any ship pa to, kasi I am ready to commit then there’s him wanted to build himself first while ‘pursuing’ me?

Starting from zero sa dating isn’t a problem. Pinaramdam ko sa kanya. It’s just fucking confusing that you’re getting the ‘love’ from someone who doesn’t even sure what he’s doing. Green flag pa naman sana kasi matured mag-isip, o baka ako lang isip bata dito? I know that love shouldn’t be fast, pero tangina di ba parang tanga kami nyan na going for 4 months na kaming naguusap pero wala paring progress??

Pauntog naman dyan. I need your advice or opinion. Harsh sana. Gusto ko mauntog.