u/Spiritual-Border6211

I remember the second time I got fucked. I didn't think this was a turn on, but it became one.

I remember he had some facial stubble, which was not a turn off. To be honest I was really young and didn't really thing about it.

We were making out, he fingered me and he tongued my ass. I was really hyper attune to what was happening because this was only my second time, but I was really excited.

So he kisses me deeply and I was so lightheaded...then he takes me from behind, and I can the head of his cock against my hole. I bear down and it slowly goes in.

But this is where I get a turn on I didn't expect. As he starts to enter me, he lies down on my back. He starts to kiss my back, neck, the side of my face.

I can feel his stubble, I dont know what it is but it felt good. His big hands on my hips pumping me.

Now any guy who I make out with with stubble, they kiss me, my neck, my back...it makes me crazy.

Another one was sucking a guy off wearing a jock, but I will talk about that later.

What was an unexpected turn on for you?

I always had a thing for leather, since I was a little kid. Leather gloves always made me insane, but pants, jackets, boots, all get my attention.

I met a guy who I chatted up at a bar wearing leather driving gloves. I made it a point to touch his hand. When he took them off after ordering a drink he said to me you look disappointed.

I told him yes, I think leather gloves are hot.

He put them back on, pulled me in and cradled my face and kissed me.

I told him I would rob a bank for him...

Anything make you that excited?

I remember the first time someone rimmed me.

He didn't ask me ahead of time. I knew he was going to fuck me, so I was extremely clean. But no one had asked to do that and I had heard about it, but I was in the fence about it.

He was massaging my back, rubbing my ass. He stuck his fingers into my mouth and I sucked on them, got them all wet.

He began to finger me, kissing my back, and then started to kiss my lower back, his tongue exploring my cheeks...he spread me open and started to lick me. I didn't expect it and he asked me if it was ok.

I said yes. Then he went to work. It was so hot. When he was done he kissed me and I could taste myself. It was so hot.

But up until that time I didn't know if I wanted it.

What about you what was something that you didn't consider until you actually did it?

I remember giving head once in a gay porn theater. It was called the Little Theater in Newark NJ.

They showed straight porn on one screen and the other one was gay porn.

Now there were signs all over the place saying you couldnt have sex, they will throw you out, but when you went into the theater there were people engaged in all manor of masturbation or oral sex.

I am sitting in the back row and this guy sits down next to me. He starts rubbing the outside of his pants and then unzips them. I reach over start to stroke him, get him hard.

Then I sucked him. Now this is going on all over the theater.

At one point I stop, and standing a row or three back is the security guard looking right at me, stroking his cock.

Needless to say we did not get thrown out.

Anyone else have experience in public or semi public?

I got into frottage back in the 80's. It was a safer sex choice.

The first time I had a friend he would put his cock between my thighs and grind into me until he came. Sometimes he would rub it agsint my ass until came.

I had a boyfriend who was into having me meet him on the PATH platform at World Trade Center in NY. We would jump on the train from there and ride it to Newark.

I would stand next to the pole and he would put a hand above me. He would slowly grind his hips into me on the packed train until he came.

Anyone else have experience with frottage?

During Covid I was bold several times with hookups.

The first one was almost like space aliens. We both wore masks and gloves, and now I am strangely turned on by that. Not as a preference, but I had a guy mention that to me that he got aroused by it...and I confessed to him so did I!

First times can be special or horrible

For me, for the most part they have been special.

First kiss...my head was swimming. I thought I was going to pass out. I couldn't believe it was happening and I couldnt believe how good it was.

The first time I touched another guys cock, I was so excited. When I jerked him off until he came, this may sound strange but I was proud, I made him cum.

The first time I got a blow job, i came really quick, but i literally saw stars. I was hyperventilating and i didn't know what to do with my hands. I wanted to grab his head and thrust into his face, but i didn't, just started to cum. I LOVED IT.

The first time i gave a blow job, was right after i got my first blow job!

I loved exploring his cock with my hands and mouth. I savored the taste. When he got some semen to the head I rubbed it on my lips and licked it.

I remember the moment so vividly, I had the head in my mouth when he came and I could taste it, and then I took it as far back as I could.

He told me he loved it and that I was great.

What were your firsts?

I have dated a few guys who were into clothes, specifically what I was wearing.

I dated one guy who was into suits. I went to Goodwill in an affluent neighborhood in Northern NJ and I was able to buy some excellent suits. I had an uncle who had custom shirts and they were my size. Would wear these to meet my date.

I had another guy who really was into boxer shorts. He bought me all kinds to wear. We would meet at a bar, cocktails, and go back to his place. He would turn down the lights and he would want me to get undressed slowly, and then he would take off the boxers himself.

I had another guy who wanted me to wear a jockstrap. He wanted me to come over after I got done working out at the Y...and he wanted me to leave the jock.

I had another guy who wanted me to wear nothing but big tshirts or football jerseys and nothing else when I was at his apartment.

I had another guy who I would play hitchhiker with. I had to wear a hoodie, ankle socks and sneakers...and basketball shorts with NO underwear. I would pretend I was looking for a ride, he would pull up and let me in the car. He would rub the outside of the shorts and then stick his hand up the leg and play with me.

There was one guy who wanted me to wear a speedo. I did not think I looked good in them, he loved it. He would take pictures of me.

So now I am dating a guy, I really like him, he likes me. After about a month of being intimate, I had this feeling he was holding back something, i dont know.

So i said to him, is there something special you want to do? Dont hold back tell me.

To be honest, except for scat, I am pretty much open, I may have done it, or I am willing to try.

Now let me qualify this with we are both very masculine, but I am submissive bottom.

He says he is embarrassed to ask, but I said ask the worst thing is I could say no.

He asked if i would wear silk mens briefs. He would buy them for me. I didn't think this was odd until a little while later when I asked about it a bit more and he said, his words, before he came out, he was married to a girl. She was not a petite girl, she was tall and I have seen pictures of her, husky. He would ask his wife to cross dress, meaning dress like a man, wear a silk mens tank top and silk mens boxers.

So I said ok, but to be clear, you dont want me to act a certain way, you just want me to wear the silk boxers?

He said yes, still act masculine, just wear the silk boxers.

My question is two fold:

what has been your experience with people asking you to wear certain clothing items?

Second I should not over think this? I mean this is just a fetish. I realize I am submissive bottom, he isn't asking me to act differently.

There is nothing hotter than making out. I can tolerate anything else, but if you can kiss, I dont care if you cum too quick, the size of your cock, I dont give two fucks.

Make out with me on a balcony, in a bar, in a car...grab me in the movies and kiss me with passion, on a hike. When we are alone or in a room full of people.

Look me in the eyes, nibble on my lips, my neck, my ear...let your tongue explore my mouth, and moan because it feels so good.

Hold me tight, kiss me deep with passion.

Change my mind.