No one told me my dress was creased
Recently married in London and it was the best experience of my life! Full of love and laughs and just general good vibes.
Started getting pictures sent from friends and family and there are very obvious asymmetrical horizontal creases in the bodice of my dress which was meant to be completely smooth.
I didn’t get a chance to see myself in a full length mirror when I was getting ready and before I knew it I was walking down the aisle. I felt really good and I got loads of compliments - it don’t think it look that obvious in person - but in every single picture my eye is drawn to these shadow creating creases. I feel like I look disheveled which as a bride is not the vibe I was going for.
My husband has emailed the photographer just to say that if he sees pictures with particularly strong creases if he could smooth them out but I can’t help but be a bit sad that my friends and family will have the the pictures they took with the creases and I’ll have potentially edited pictures which just makes me feel like they’ll be fake.
My mum has shrugged it off calling me a perfectionist and my husband is saying “it’s not that bad”, both statements have made me feel a bit worse.
I don’t know if I’m fishing for sympathy or words of encouragement or just to be told I’m being foolish worrying about something that shouldn’t be a big deal, but my disappointment hurts my soul and I feel bad for feeling bad. This may well be the consequences of the post wedding blues and I’m just emotionally charged. Anyways. I really hope I get over it.