In march my boyfriend at the time SAed me, it was fairly minor but I've found myself stressing over the experience a lot recently.
I have a guy friend who's a mutual with my ex and I've considered talking to him about it but I'm just not sure what the gain would be. He's been my friend for a really long time and has expressed that he agrees my ex is problematic but they're still mates so I'm just not sure.
My mum has always been my best friend but recently things have fallen apart between us and I kind of have no idea how to fix it. Last year was a really bad year for both of us, but I had real trouble with SH which she doesn't know about and my boyfriend at the time (ex now) lowkey SAed me. Those two things have caused me to really close up and in on myself and I just don't really talk anymore or express myself in any way, so I think she thinks I'm closed off and hate her or something but it's causing us to argue a lot.
I had no intention of ever telling her either of those things but I'm wondering if there's anyone out there who thinks it'll help. Because I think it'll ruin my life.