u/StaffRemarkable5755

Differences between FLEV and ELVF? (Typing is optional)

So i thought I was a flev but people on reddit type me as an elvf cuz im an infp 4w3.

Physics - i hate people touching my stuff or invading my space. I can be very organized when it comes to my bedroom but very disorganized when it comes to my bathroom. I like arranging my items but hate having to go near molds and dust so they keep accumulating over time until they get on my nerves and i begin to deep clean the whole space. Im very picky in what i eat. Wouldnt sacrifice comfort to hang out with friends. I dont care about my fashion but care a lot about how my room makes me feel. I dont care about the taste of the food but the texture. There are certain food ive never tried but really hate nonetheless.

Logic - i love debating and seeing the issue in multiple povs. Dont gaf in embarrasaing myself by saying something stupid in class. However, i would be devastated whenever i have a B on a quiz or an exam. I spend most of my free time reading books, going on reddit, or learning about typology and history. I also like playing sudoku and minesweeper (idk if those count). My friends have told me im very rational in emotions matter.

Emotions - growing up with a sp9 and sp6 parents kinda stultified my emotions. I used to be very sensitive and expeessive as a kid, but now i struggle a lot on saying how i feel. I would burn bridges and cut ties with my friends if i accidentally say something too vulnerable or cringey. I think i have disorganized attachment style i keep switching between being very friendly with others then blocking them afterward cuz im embarrassed to think about what ive done.

Volition - i dont really understand volition. Im very chill and laid back. My biggest weaknesses are sloth, inertia, and inconsistency. I have goals but i cant act on them. I also hate it whenever my parents nag me to do something i know i should have but i just hate it when its them. Im very compliant when friends, teachers, or strangers tell me to do something i know is good for me, which my parents have called me out, saying im hypocritical.

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u/StaffRemarkable5755 — 14 days ago