30F | Chennai | F4M | Strictly Childfree | Looking for a Long-Term Relationship
Hi! I'm a 30-year-old woman from Chennai, working in IT. I'm strictly childfree by choice — I don't have children and don't want biological, adopted, or stepchildren in the future. I'm looking for someone who is equally certain about being childfree.
A little about me
I'm independent, feminist, straightforward and an ambivert. I'm quite sensitive emotionally and very attached to my family.
I'm a non-vegetarian and would prefer someone who isn't vegan. I don't drink, smoke, use weed or drugs, although I don't judge people simply for drinking or smoking.
I'm more of a saver than a spender. Financial awareness and being responsible with money matter to me, but that doesn't mean we shouldn't enjoy life.
Movies and series are my happy place. 😄 I'm especially into horror, crime and thrillers. I can easily get addicted to a good series.
I'm also very interested in politics and enjoy conversations about society, equality and different political ideas. Politically, I lean towards communism.
For transparency, I'm 5 ft tall and around 88 kg.
Why I'm childfree
For me, motherhood is a lifelong responsibility without a retirement date. I don't want to take on that mental and emotional responsibility for the rest of my life. I also feel raising children has become increasingly expensive.
This isn't something I'm undecided about, and I'm not looking for someone who is a fence-sitter about children.
What I'm looking for ❤️
I'd like a long-term, monogamous relationship with someone who genuinely wants to build a partnership.
What matters most to me:
Emotional availability and reciprocity
Mutual respect
Clear and honest communication
Emotional maturity
Financial awareness
Love, care and affection
Equality in the relationship
Being firmly childfree
I'm not looking for perfection. I want someone with whom effort, curiosity and affection go both ways.
If you're strictly childfree, emotionally available and looking for something meaningful, feel free to DM me with a little about yourself — age, location, what you do, why you're childfree, and what you're looking for in a relationship.
Let's start with a conversation and see where it goes. :)