u/Status-Tie3137

Could this work out and be compatible or incompatible? Im in a long distance relationship with someone who is an istj and im an intp. We started dating pretty recently but one of the obstacles we run into are his structure and simplicity and my complexity and analytical nature. We also are both autistic and have adhd, we bond on shared experiences and relatability with emotions and struggles but our interests are very different with only some things in common. I also tend to be very spontaneous and he dislikes that and Im trying to be better. What should I do and could this work?