My Wife Very Secretive about her Phone, also suspicious of my phone

I am (M31) Newly married about 2 months. I noticed my wife(F30) is very secretive about her phone. She uses the phone without showing me, in my absense, as soon as I enter the room she suddenly stops using the phone. She hides. this happens many times. seeing her behaviour, I doubet and tried to check her phone in her absense or Secretly. now I feel She knows im watching/suspicious and is becoming defensive. and I also found out, now she is checking my phone secretly too. we both are defensive and suspecious about each other. I dont know how to haldle this situation further. can anyone going through same situation, ? please guide me.

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u/Status_Fish_2757 — 20 hours ago
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Feels Uncomfortable Expressing Myself as Indian abroad

Despite Love and patriotism for my country. When expressing myself as an indian in foreign countries feels uncomfortable. and peoples perspective changes as soon as they know the other person is indian. I dont know if this is normal or not. do anyone feels the same? if yes , WHY?

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u/Status_Fish_2757 — 22 hours ago