New to this sub. Help me understand.
I always blame myself for the wrong decisions I took. I keep wondering what could have happened if I hadn't done what I did. I eventually realized that it's not always my fault. There were other circumstances that made me did what I did. Do I blame others/circumstances now?
It's human nature to get closure for yourself by blaming others or circumstances or sometimes your own self. This helps me from not taking such decisions in the future, but I often get stuck in a cycle of over analyzing the events and not taking accountability for my actions.
But all the circumstances depend on thousdands of other circumstances. Who do I blame? Is it the fault of the universe that lead to this chaos? How do I stop myself from blaming myself and others. Plz advise.