u/Still_fer_05

I (21f) have been together with my now fiance (26m) for 3 years. We recently got engaged and the engagement party completely ruined my life.

I basically noticed him ogling my sister (24f) the entire engagement party. To be fair my sister is extremely beautiful and charming but ffs I am literally his fiancée and he barely glanced at me all night! He's had problems in the past where he would openly check out other girls but I thought we had worked it out.

I was feeling confused and heartbroken and I asked my mother about it but she just told me I am being paranoid.

The other day when we were out and he went to order our food I looked through his phone and discovered he had sent messages to my sister complimenting her and calling her beautiful. She saw them and didn't reply but she also didn't tell me.

What should I do? I have been crying myself to sleep for days and feel so conflicted and disgusted. How am I supposed to marry a man who can't even keep his eyes away from my own sister?

I have already decided that I am going to break up with him but I don't know how I am going to trust someone again. To me it seems like all men are lustful and have wandering eyes and I am losing hope on finding someone who is completely loyal.

How should I confront him and my sister who this away from me? And how can I get over this because it has really affected my self-esteem.

Do you like it when the girls makes the first step?

I'm a 20f , in my first year at the uni I became friends with two best friends (tfol w tofla) which were studying together in different uni . We became super close to each other and always go out , study ...

but b7okom kano ya9rw mab34hom they spend more time together .

The girl was my binôme and that's way we became besties and we literally talk about everything to each other. The boy have often came over to our house due to their projects and I always stay with them because they ask me to (bach mayak3douch w7dhom ras ras)

the boy was super handsome and respectful. I slowly felt for him but couldn't confess because I always felt that they had feelings for each other and didn't want to ruin their relationship. But suddenly the boy disappeared and never talk to us again even with his bf which is studying with him .I ask my binôme why he became like that but hiya bidha didn't know why.... she always kept telling me about him and I'm pretty sure she's hurt by his actions.

Soo what I should do in this case, should I tell her I liked him or confess my feelings towards him? At the same time I want our friendship to return kima kanet w I don't want to hurt my bestie's feelings