r/TunisiaRelationships

I(27F), decent looking, searching for my other half, maybe i will find him on Reddit.

I want someone who works out and not balding.

Thank you

Hey everyone
I’m new here and just needed to get some perspective.
Everytime I try to give dating a chance I stop myself khater kol ma nchouf louled twa kifech yetsarfou nkoul "let me just wait."
I’m really not the type who likes wasting time. Ma nhebch nodkhel f relation tthaya3ni ala krayti wala hyeti I just want something clean mature and straightforward.
Ama modern dating here feels like a mess drama w mixed signals overthinking games w lack of communication. Louled ma aadch yaarfou chnowa yhbou dima cheating casual disrespect while dating w hta baaed ma ykosha
Honestly I feel drawn to older guys that’s the only group where I actually see stability clear goals w zero drama. I know economy wise people don't fully settle in their careers until 25+ ama I’m talking about personality and respect.
Is this normal? Am I asking for too much or looking in the wrong places? Would love to hear your thoughts especially if anyone feels the same.

Let’s be real for a second because I keep seeing this same exact take all over this subreddit. Every time relationships or intimacy comes up, a ton of comments from women make it sound like men are the only ones who ever want sex, or they talk about it like it’s some chore.

Like:"men are always so horny" bitch, you too,ok?

From personal experience and just basic reality, women have high sex drives too. I don't get why so many users here front like they don't care about it or project this idea that it's exclusively a guy thing. Is it a cultural modesty thing, are people just hiding behind anonymous accounts, or am I missing something? Why is there such a double standard when it comes to admitting you actually enjoy it?

trying something

I(26M), decent looking, searching for my other half, maybe i will find her on Reddit.

my dms are open.

Thank you

How do I heal after such a big disappointment following a really lovely relationship that lasted for months? We never even had problems, but the moment he felt like I might end the relationship, he suddenly ghosted me, acted as if I had never been important to him, and now treats me like a complete stranger—even though we go to the same school

Do you like it when the girls makes the first step?

I(21M), tall,decent looking, searching for my other half, maybe i will find her on Reddit.

I want someone who works out and not overweight.

Thank you

I wish we could just have casual intimacy with women more easily instead of being forced into full-blown relationships, similar to how it works in Western countries.

To be completely honest, I don't want a long-term commitment, an emotional connection, or a relationship right now. I just want casual sex. It’s a normal human desire, but I absolutely hate that girls in Tunisia are all wired to think that casual encounters shouldn't happen. It is completely unlike Western girls, who do that all the time and are totally fine with it.

On top of that, the double standards here are insane. You basically have to be a top-tier, tall, perfect, handsome, and highly muscular guy to even have casual sex with an average or normal girl here.

Here, it feels like women are culturally conditioned to view casual intimacy as a taboo, meaning you constantly have to jump through emotional hoops or lock yourself into a serious relationship structure just to get laid unless you fit a flawless physical mold.

Why can't people here just be upfront about what they want and enjoy a mutual physical connection without all the extra baggage and forced expectations attached to it? Does anyone else feel like the dating culture here is entirely too restrictive for people who just want to keep things casual?

Hi everyone, I’d like to get some outside opinions because I’m not sure if I’m overthinking this.

I’ve been married for a year, and my husband and I were together for five years before getting married. We’re generally very close and talk about almost everything. Money was never really a problem before marriage either. We talked about who would pay for what, and even during our wedding preparations, we managed the expenses pretty fairly between us.

I work and I’m financially independent. My husband is currently a med student, and has a stable income from his family. We’re doing fine financially and we own a house together.

But since getting married, I’ve noticed that he really avoids talking about money when it comes to the future. I don’t really know what we should be saving, what kind of budget we should have for vacations or bigger things, or even generally what our financial situation looks like.

I’ve tried talking about it a few times, but he usually changes the subject or gets defensive. He says that he doesn’t know what the future will look like and prefers to deal with things when they actually happen.

I’m not trying to control his money or know everything he spends. I just feel that as a married couple, we should be able to have a basic conversation about our finances and future plans.

So I’d really like to hear from you. : How open are you with your spouse about money? Is this kind of privacy normal, or should I be concerned?

Forget relationships , forget everything and focus on one topic that will get brought out almost after a while which is marriage , personally speaking I dislike marriage , heck I could live with the one I love without marrying her and before we get ahead of ourselves no it's not irresponsibility, it's the damn rubbish culture, since I was a kid I never liked this whole Tunisian tradition thing but anyways back to where I left it , marriage seems to be a breaking point for many men as of lately , I'm not against providing or anything before some angry folks jump out at me , it's just the demands outweighs the benefits and the true purpose of marriage , it's almost nearly impossible to have everything out at the same time from a car to a house to gold to gifts to a vacation to whatever she demands , mostly it's the family which to a certain point I don't even get , am I marrying the family or her ?

This whole cultural nonsense and this whole euphoric dream needs to die , I dunno about anyone but personally speaking, I only like genuineness and the sense of staying with the one you cherish your whole life not by following the norms or the materialistic route , but by following your desire to build and protect and stay with her or him forever

Hey guys i am literally shaking and having a mental breakdown right now. I just need to vent and get some advice because idek what to do anymore.
So me and my gf have been together for around 9 months now. We go to the same uni here. We haven't gotten intimate at all, like we haven't even sent any intimate pics or anything. The furthest we've ever gone was just a kiss on occasions. I love her and i always told her id love to get closer to her physically, but she always said she never does that before marriage and that she has never shown her body to a guy. She seemed like a really conservative, traditional person when she's with me so I respected her boundaries completely.
We are friends on discord because she's the one who told me to join a study related server for our uni to get drive resources from former students. Fast forward to two days ago, my best friend who is a big nerdy guy who basically lives on discord asked to meet me urgently. He told me it's really serious . He tried to setup the mood then showed me his screen while he was scrolling down an NSFW discord server. Guys, he showed me my girlfriend's account. She has a history there that goes back months. She shared like 30+ videos of her masturbating, showing her chest, putting her tongue out, everything. And when we looked up her messages in the server search bar, it shows +99 messages. It's all stuff like "dms open only big dcks allowed" and "i need a creampie rn". I am not even joking. The last time she chatted there was literally 8 hours ago.
It makes no sense. I haven't even seen that side of her, and I've been respecting what I thought were her values for 9 months, waiting for marriage, but she’s out here acting completely different with strangers on the internet.
I feel so betrayed and it hurts so much. She shows a completely different persona there compared to the person I know at uni. How do I even handle this? Do I even try to talk to her about it or just end it? Please give me some advice because I am feeling completely lost right now.

I (21f) have been together with my now fiance (26m) for 3 years. We recently got engaged and the engagement party completely ruined my life.

I basically noticed him ogling my sister (24f) the entire engagement party. To be fair my sister is extremely beautiful and charming but ffs I am literally his fiancée and he barely glanced at me all night! He's had problems in the past where he would openly check out other girls but I thought we had worked it out.

I was feeling confused and heartbroken and I asked my mother about it but she just told me I am being paranoid.

The other day when we were out and he went to order our food I looked through his phone and discovered he had sent messages to my sister complimenting her and calling her beautiful. She saw them and didn't reply but she also didn't tell me.

What should I do? I have been crying myself to sleep for days and feel so conflicted and disgusted. How am I supposed to marry a man who can't even keep his eyes away from my own sister?

I have already decided that I am going to break up with him but I don't know how I am going to trust someone again. To me it seems like all men are lustful and have wandering eyes and I am losing hope on finding someone who is completely loyal.

How should I confront him and my sister who this away from me? And how can I get over this because it has really affected my self-esteem.

I feel like i‘m always struggling with attracting my preferable physical type and i always attract the opposite ones. I like very tall big older guys with deep black hair and a goatee. I just end up attracting somehow short skinny younger blondes with no facial hair and i really don’t find blonde men attractive at all sorry not sorry i just find blond looks better on women ://

I have none to talk to abt this
I ve been in only one relationship
We (as i thought) were in love
Stupid bitch

We broke up for a stupid reason 4 months ago
He was my sweet boy he knows i ve never felt safe around ANYONE ANYONE AT ALL except him
We were planning on getting engaged in a year
He s richer than me so for his birthday khabbit masrouf chhar w chritlou behom fazet w hawelt i spoil him chway
I did everything
I supported him when he was down depressed insecure i listened and listened and cared and did so much fucking effort

Anyways for the last 4 months i ve been secretly checking his tiktok insta etc
All he did was repost some shit about how every girl he was was badder than the last
And somehow i found out he has a new girl
She s gorgeous
A lil too perfect
He s been liking her posts since april
Since his birthday
The times i thought we were deeply in love
She s blonde
He said he hated blonds lol

What did i do wrong
I couldve died for this man
He knows it
Am earased like a dream
How can i rebuild my hope in love
Am an orphan and i already struggle believing in good intentions with men
But this
My sweet boy did this ? To me
Wlh laathim teebt i dont deserve this belah help
I ll see him in uni w he ll nit give a fuck
He said he s been cheated on in the past
I kept my loyalty w my love for him w he tore my heart to pieces
Idk what to say

i really wanna know what goes through the mind of people who ghost, i mean im not saying that i’ve never ghosted someone YES unfortunately i did but only when using a dating Apps or maximum after a first date i know its still bad and i stopped doing it but i feel like if you go out on multiple dates and got to know each other even if you are not in a relationship a discussion needs to be made if you wanna stop getting to know the other person unless you are too afraid and can’t communicate for me its just immature but would like to know if you ghost after multiple dates What was going through your mind?

I teach online, and recently I had an Algerian client who lives in France. He paid for a package of classes, and we had our first lesson, which went really well. He seemed genuinely happy with the class and told me he was satisfied with everything.

Then, about a week later, he suddenly stopped attending.

I messaged him to ask if everything was okay. I asked whether he was going on vacation, had been busy with work, or simply wanted to take a break. He told me that his girlfriend was jealous and didn’t want him to continue taking classes with me.

Of course, I respected his decision and didn’t push the matter. What surprised me, though, was that he didn’t even ask for his money back. He simply told me, “It’s okay, you can keep the money”

I found the whole situation quite strange. I understand that jealousy can happen in relationships, but being uncomfortable with your partner taking online classes with their teacher to the point of asking them to stop seems a little unusual to me

Maybe I’m missing something, but I honestly found myself wondering: what exactly was there to be jealous of?

Hello im 25 y old I never be in relationship. I try to be but I don't know it's run out.

I do a lot of date when I was in the university but none of them go to be a relationship I feel like I scared or ppl on that point.in the way I find negative things in her or something I feel like I'm scared to be with a girl I don't know what is the problem exactly

Like... I be with a girl and she is good and 10/10 but something happened and she go it's happening 3-4 times with girls , anyone know why ? I'm 195 cm gym man .... Funny "hakka y9oulou " engineer.... So I'm not at that bad to be in this position

that's it . Tunisian men traumatized

respect for all the Tunisian good men and women all ofc

Before I write anything, I like to disclose that this post is as objective as I can make it to be so please do not make assumptions about me that aren't written here and I am free to answer any questions.

So I (26M) live in a small conservative town, in my whole life I only really liked one gal, it was at least 10 years ago when I was in high school.

This girl was without a doubt the ideal match for me(and if I am to be a bit arrogant I am a real good match for her).

What makes me say so is the fact that we share a lot of interest, we are both leftists/liberals in a conservative town, we both nerds and our convos used to be really interesting.

We lost contact exactly exactly after 3eme, now last I heard she's working as an English teacher while I moved abroad.

I genuinely fell for her so hard back in the day and wanted to tell her how I feel but she was cold toward me so I decided to not declare my feelings out of self respect.

Recently I came across her socials and sent her a Facebook request, and I genuinely would love to connect back with her and see where it leads without making it weird and that's my question. I already sent her a friend request on Facebook and also found her LinkedIn.

So girls, if you were in her place how would you like it to happen?

Lastly, I would like y'all to know that this is pretty much the only good match in my town and I mean it because there's no way that I would end up without Someone with my background other than her because the rest have nothing in common with me.

I have this coworker who I didn’t really talk to before, except for the usual “salem, salem.” But then I got to know him a little better, and we kind of became closer. We started talking about our daily lives, things we do, our hobbies, random stuff… and honestly, I started really enjoying talking to him and laughing with him.
But lately, out of nowhere, I feel like he’s starting to avoid me. We used to eat together in the lunchroom, but now whenever he comes in and I’m there, he either leaves or starts talking to other people without even looking at me. It’s like he suddenly put a wall between us.
Now we barely talk anymore, and it feels like we’ve gone back to just saying “Salem Salem” to each other.

I honestly don’t know what happened or why he suddenly started acting this way. It’s making me wonder if I did something wrong or if I’m just overthinking it. What could it be?