r/TunisiaRelationships

I’m going on a date with this guy i’ve been talking to for months now, we have some interests in common but i’m not good at talking irl especially to guys, I’m extremely shy, i once met a guy (i didn’t even like him) and i was unconsciously covering my face most of the time, I’m afraid he’ll be the only one talking or we will just sit there in the awkward silence until i escape…
What do you people talk about on a first date? Like from the very first minute you meet

Hello community, any suggestions for a dating app (other than tinder) ? Thank you.

Guys is that okay that the person that i still ,till this day, missing the person that i really loved (6 years now since we last talked) and i can't find someone like her, i think about her everyday and nobody knows, literally nobody knows that i even think about her , w jawi behy i have social life w nakra belgde and i'm keeping this story for myself and i never tried to reach out khater naaref lhkeya wfet w hata had ma aawedh blasetha, saat nabda nemchi f cheraa netsawer ken torodhni kifech nahkiw (ps:she's beautiful and so smart)

I wanted to share my experiences and ask for some honest advice because I feel like I keep repeating the same pattern.

My first situationship happened when I was 3 ème lycée . I really liked this girl, and we had a lot in common. I confessed my feelings, and she didn't reject me. She said she liked me too, but that we needed more time to get to know each other before starting a relationship.

The problem was that, in my mind, I already treated us like we were a couple. I texted her all the time, bought her chocolates, and gave her a lot of attention. At first she was responsive, but over time her replies became slower. Looking back, I think I was overwhelming her. Eventually, she told me that she didn't think we should continue or pursue a relationship because I wasn't giving her enough space and my affection was too intense.

So, in a way, the relationship that existed only in my head ended before it had even started in real life.

Then, during my freshman year at university, I met another girl. This time, she was actually the one initiating most conversations. She would send me reels, ask me to hang out, and invite me to study together.

I wanted to learn from my previous experience, so I decided not to confess my feelings too early. I thought it was better to take things slowly and let us get to know each other naturally. But every time I considered expressing how I felt, I kept telling myself, "It's not the right time yet."

Eventually, various problems came up, things faded, and we stopped talking. She later made it clear that she didn't want to continue or pursue a romantic relationship.

In both situations, even after being rejected, I found it very hard to let go. A part of me always wanted to keep trying, hoping that if I just put in more effort, things might eventually work out.

Now I'm wondering if I'm making opposite mistakes. The first time I rushed things and was too intense. The second time I waited too long and never expressed my feelings.

Has anyone else experienced something similar? Do you think there's a pattern in my behavior that I'm missing? I'd really appreciate honest feedback, even if it's something I might not want to hear.

( Both of them and any girl that I knew said that I m nice guy , helpful , Gentil.... Mais l we9a3 I got rejected each time 0 relationshop..)

Lmawthu3 mafih eli fi dating apps or even in real life ..high porcentage of girls being dry as fuuc, tl9a rouhek after 1 minute haz lconversation 3la ktefek

Efhmo ely lconversation tkoun men two sides if i open a subject to talk mafiha bess ba3d matjwb ts2al the same question to me its simple and show a little interest ........ idk hatha ysamouh high ego or lose of interest or just to show up mm you have to do more to impress me ..for me i will not waste a tiny energy doing more .. some girls l79i9a open up mlmara lawla and conversation go smooth but with numbers its 1 of 50

Is it okay to suddenly miss someone who you didn’t attract with for a long time and you didn’t think about him for a long time knowing damn well that this person did you dirty and was a bad person and hurt you + cheated on you and you are not allowed to miss him and you don’t even want this person back in your life and you don’t want any attraction with this person but today i woke up missing him and thinking about him (if he texted me I won’t respond) and i am ashamed that i feel like that i thought that i’ve moved on while ago (he’s an ex)

Hello community, actually this is my first post on Reddit. Well, I'm 32 years old, and I feel confused about marriage. I haven't found a profile that matches mine, and so I've become less and less active on this subject. Do you think that's normal? And do you think I'm less attractive [because of this]? Your suggestions, and thank you.

I’m 29F and I’ve never been in a serious relationship by choice. Waiting until marriage is important to me, but I’m curious how other people deal with physical attraction and emotional needs in a healthy way

I’m not looking for religious debates or “just get married” comments. I’m genuinely interested in hearing what habits, mindset, or lifestyle changes have helped you. Especially from people who’ve been in a similar situation.

I feel like I don’t get along with people ( i’m not a teen I’m almost 21yo) i feel like any people who get into my life has a limited time then i let him go idk it feels like it’s something in me i feel like my mind always trying to let me be by myself tbh I don’t mind but lately i started to think maybe i’m the problem maybe i’m someone who not reachable even my family I don’t get along with them (btw i’m prepa student and i’m very smart) I also feel like I always push away people I enjoy being alone but now it feels bad that everyone has a best friend but i’m no one’s best friend

I want mature ppl's advice bc I've been losing myself over smth I started to see worthless, which is this relationship.

So, I've been w this guy for a year now , we were best friends at the beginning, we talked day and night, we were a safe place for each other. Then I confessed to him so does he , told me he liked me too so we started dating. both of us have been dealing w mental health , but I've been there for him all the time even when I was at my worst , so he does . In the beginning of this year I used to call him whenever he needed to even tho I was in a very big need to sleep bc both my body and brain were missed up , even when I was busy I was there for him , outside my house, at uni , with ppl.. I was always there . The thing is he changed a lot and I'm not blaming him bc he has his own problems but a lot of times I felt he just won't talk with me or spend a day without even sending anything but wait for me to do . I sometimes say maybe I'm selfish maybe I'm becoming too much for him , but then I get hit by a moment of realization and ask myself why I'm giving too much of myself while he doesn't even show up when I'm at my worst? What will happen after? what if he doesn't love me anymore and what if I have to just walk away?.

What should I do for real?,

Like i said I keep getting a lot of likes and matches on bumble but once we match they don’t talk or sometimes send hey and stop there, is this normal or no cuz why would you like if you don’t want to talk i don’t get it. Im a male btw

my last 3 dates were like so bored ,Like finding someone to talk with about politics,history , technology or philosophy is getting harder , everyone is literally interested in either how to get laid or how to use people, the intention of having a real convos and based on it you know if that person is suitable for you or not is fading .

Am I the only one who's having this issue ?

I’m genuinely interested in hearing honest opinions from women.

How do you generally perceive shy men in real life?

For example, men who are:

- quiet in social situations

- slow to open up emotionally

- not very direct in flirting or expression

- sometimes socially awkward

Do you find this personality type attractive, neutral, or a turn-off?

I would appreciate honest perspectives, including negative experiences if any. If you have dated a shy man before, I’d also be interested to know how that experience went and whether it worked out or not.

I've noticed that a lot of people feel pressured to be in a relationship or get married by a certain age.

If you're 25 and still single, people start asking questions.

If you're close to 30, they act like you're running out of time.

It makes me wonder if we're chasing relationships because we're genuinely ready, or because we feel like we're falling behind everyone else.

Some people meet the right person at 20. Others meet them at 35. Some take longer because they're focusing on their career, healing, or simply haven't found the right match yet.

Maybe there is no such thing as being "late." Maybe we're just comparing our lives to a timeline that society created.

I'm curious what you think.

Would you rather marry the right person later in life, or marry someone who isn't the right match just because you felt pressured to do it while you were younger?

There’s a girl on Facebook I’m interested in and I thought about messaging her.

The issue is I think her cousin works with me, so I’m worried it might get awkward if she tells him.

I’d only send a respectful casual message, nothing weird. Am I overthinking this?

I've been with a Tunisian girl for 6 months. Recently i discovered that she was sending photos of her " breast" to a man. When i confronted her about that she told me it's nothing and that it's not a big deal she told me if i was a Tunisian man you wouldn't get mad about it. I broke up with her and to the last minute she was convinced that I'm over reacting. I've never asked her to do something like that for me i was extremely respectful and she did love that's something that I'm sure of. But I really don't understand how what she did was ok for her.

I'm close minded like she said or over reacting.

Didnt get the job btw lol.

I think I’m writing this out of frustration.
F24
Yesterday, I deleted my Bumble account after being on it for two weeks.
It’s not my first time using the app, and it’s definitely not the first time I’ve ended up deleting it. I’ve been on and off Bumble, always hoping I’ll find someone decent—someone I’m physically attracted to, who shares my values, mindset, and, most importantly, my intellectual level. But I guess it’s not that deep on there.
It’s become a loop: I create an account, get multiple matches, talk to a few people, get hit with reality, lower my expectations a little, get frustrated after a while, and then delete the app.
I’ve met a few people, but it’s either a one-date kind of thing because I realize during the date that I’m never going to see them again, or we end up seeing each other a few times without ever putting a label on it.
Everyone seems to be there for the ego boost, collecting Instagram followers, or looking for something short-term while expecting all the privileges of a serious relationship—t9oul offre premium lol. No one can hold a solid conversation for more than two messages.
Meeting someone in real life isn’t exactly realistic either. At least not for me. I work eight hours a day, and I don’t really have the time or the environment to meet new people organically.
I guess the dating scene is fucked, and Reddit made me realize it’s a common problem.

It's my first post so I hope I don't mess this up.

I am a 28 yo woman, with a very successful career, I live in different countries all over the world, and it makes it hard for me to start a relationship. I am conventionally attractive, but I have built a discipline for myself that might come out as being cold. I am also very strict in the religious aspect, I want my husband to pray, not drink and be virgin. Another criteria is for him to be kind and passionate about his work. I don't think it is too much to ask?

I am wondering whether my looks are the problem. People often assume that I am not religious, perhaps because I go to parties sometimes and don't wear a hijab ?

I was wondering how do people do it these days ? Finding a husband ?

Ps: I don't work with Tunisians so I cannot find a husband at the workplace, and Tunisian nationality is a requirement for me.

hey yall , nheb tafsir i will keep it simple im 24 yo man period hedhi im depressed asf t3ebt wena n5abi fel feeling edheka b9it 5 yem n5amem bch n9oul lomi , i just wanted a hug from her ou t9oli hani m3ak she supports me yaani , mchit 9otlha tesdamt she got mad she didnt show any empathy t8achet ou maa3adech tahki m3aya la79i9a tesdamt ltawa menich fehm 3lech , ou ba3d ma7kitlha suddenly 5weti lebnet asgher meni yetsarfou dra kifeh ma3adech y9adrou ou ma3dech yahkiw maya kima 9bal they avoid me ou they judge me btari9a rahiba . WTF is this ?????