I feel like i‘m always struggling with attracting my preferable physical type and i always attract the opposite ones. I like very tall big older guys with deep black hair and a goatee. I just end up attracting somehow short skinny younger blondes with no facial hair and i really don’t find blonde men attractive at all sorry not sorry i just find blond looks better on women ://
So I’m a big nerd and used to be a big fan of greek mythology as a teenager so watching the odyssey was obviously a big deal for me. I’ve watched 2 times already and I’m planning to go watch it for the third time lol. I’m even debating to buy the book and read it cuz it brought back nostalgia from my teenage years.
So i would love to hear your nerdy opinions about the movie and discuss it with you. I would’ve discussed it with my friends but none of them wanted to watch it or listen to my nerdy talks about it. I already watched the movie alone :(
I‘m bored so i wanna hear your cringy confession moments and laugh (i‘m not unemployed, i just need a cringe break to forget the depressive reality )
Anyway, i‘ll go first. A guy from my uni was texting me one time and i thought nothing much about it. I thought he was just asking me about uni stuff. Anyway one night he texted me that he’s in love with a girl and he doesn’t know her name and only saw her one time in his life. I thought at first that he meant some girl that he saw in our uni and he wanted me to help him with finding who she was so i asked him to describe her. The guy told me that he doesn’t remember her looks either and he may thinks that her name was :“he basically wrote my name backwards“
And that’s when i was like oh shit. I tried to play it dumb that night but i had to meet him in the morning cuz we were gonna attend a lecture together. After the lecture he brought up the girl that he‘s in love with again and kept saying my name backwards and i kept trying to play stupid as if i‘m not picking on the hint :))
And as his final move, he pulled his phone and opened the selfie camera and pointed it at my face and he said “you are the girl, it’s you“😭😭😭
I ended up laughing awkwardly then i told him i have another lecture and dismissed myself 😭😭😭😭
The guy was actually cute. If he just did things differently i would’ve agreed to dating him but that just turned me off and gave me the ick…
So i did a mistake by saying yes to a date that i didn’t want. Ig in the moment when the guy asked me i wasn’t thinking much and probably was feeling sad that me and the guy that i was interested hat to separate cuz he was moving away. So in the heat of the moment i said yes but now that it’ll sunk in, i really don’t want to go on a date with this guy and i don’t even wanna talk to him. Looks wise he’s not my type (he’s not ugly but i’m just only attracted to one specific physical appearance). However the more i talk to him the more i find our personalities not compatible at all and replying to his messages feels like a chore.
I really feel bad and i don’t want to hurt his feelings and especially that my friend told me that he has been focused on me for 2 years. He’s a nice person and very respectful but he’s just not my person and i don’t feel any attraction towards him and also i feel like my heart is still with the other guy and not fully moved on.
Now i really don’t know how to fix this and not go on the date without hurting him.
This is very interesting and it’s the first time something like this happens to me.
Yesterday i dreamt that i kissed this guy that i knew for a very short time but we didn’t have time to date cuz he was moving out. From my point of view i was just lowkey attracted to the guy and i obviously told my female cousin that i did like him somehow. Anyway the guy moved out for a while now and i lost contact with him but yesterday i had this dream about us kissing. I didn’t think much of it cuz i thought that maybe my subconscious mind was playing tricks on me. But then later on i was hanging out with my cousin and she mentioned randomly that she had a dream about me kissing that guy yesterday. I was so surprised to hear this cuz i didn’t even expect it. I didn’t even mention that i had the same dream as her beforehand so it just left me wondering if this could have any spiritual meaning or it’s just a very random thing that just happened?
I‘m 22 yo and my only closest friend whom i talk with everyday is an 18 yo guy that i‘ve known since he was 5yo lol. In high school i used to have multiple friends but now that everyone lives too far away from the other, the friendship is no longer consistent. Like we only text once every 3 months and the conversation is very brief. I‘ve tried to make new friends here and then but all of them seem superficial. I mean they are cool ppl but the conversations don’t feel as genuine and more performative and it just drains my energy so i find myself drifting away from them. In general, i don’t mind going out alone and doing stuff on my own but it gets to a point where it’s so boring and you wished you had someone that you can have a quality conversation with.
Does it get better or is this the reality i have to accept?
I dunno lately if i’m crazy or wtf is wrong with me.
Aandi yji chehar mnli i moved out to live alone w fi l 3imara mte3i i met a new guy and he seemed really nice and we exchanged instas but lowkey barely text. Ngl i find him attractive and he could be my type but i don’t know him that well to be sure. Also his words to me are very sweet but idunno if it’s just his personality and he’s sweet to everyone or not. Anyway he told me lately his gonna move out this week to a new city farrrrr away and now i found myself sad about him leaving. And i dunno if it’s because my attraction to him and to the fact we didn’t even have time to hang out abd see where it goes. Or maybe cuz I’m completely living alone for the first time and the loneliness and the longing for human connection are catching up to me or is it cuz my exams are soon and i need a reason to distract me from the stress. Or maybe i m just sad..
I told my mother about the guy when i first met him and she was like « fok aalina… w ma retehtlouch » ig cuz he’s way older than me lol but i m lowkey convinced that my mother prayed that he leaves and now her wishes are coming true..(I’m just kidding )
Anyway jokes aside, how to not be sad ?
This is me just renting about something happened a few weeks ago.
So i live in a western country with western culture and values ofc. Ena mn nawaa elli ma yhmnich fi ness kifech t3ich w kol wehd w horitou el chakhssiya yaaml elli yheb aalih fi hyetou as long as they’re not harming others ofc.
Anyway ena w zouz sahbeti twensa aana sahbetna magherbiya na9raw lkol fi nafss el uni mais mouch nafss el majors w sa3aaaaaat nmchiw nrivzou maa baadhna fi bib. Houwa el ha9 i‘m only close kn maa wahda barka tounsiya w lokhrin zouz we‘re cool w nfadlkou w naamlou jaw maa baadhna ama not that close tbh. Anyway fast forward to jomaa elli fetet, ena kont fi l bib w tofla el magherbia baathetli msgs tes2l fiya kn ena fi l bib wala le khaterha hiya zeda ghadi so 9otelha ey w 9otelha haya naamlou pause sghira so we did. Neharetha skhouna skhouna skhounnnnnnnaaaa mch normal w literally ma tnajmech tetnafss maa skhana w humidity w zid el bib mehech climatisée w chbebk lkol msakrin so hata mn nefass yet9ta3 aalik w ena tbh ma nkhamemch fi chnouwa nelbss juste nlbss aala rahti dc neharetha kont lebsa cropped tank top w low rise jeans. Anyway ki mchit ll tofla bch naamlou pause ki ratni aatani look dra kifeh (hiya methajeba w sahbetna zouz lokhrin mouch methajbet mais they dress up very modestly) fi louwl 9olt belkchi ena nestkhayl w barra w kamlna hkina aadi w mchina bch nekhdhou haja berda nochrbouha. Aada ena nfadlk w n9olha malla ta9ess el wehd ma ynajmch hata yetnafss w hiya t9oli hahaha enti base rak makch hassa beskhana chou ech lebsa mch kifi ena and normally i don’t mind these type of comments cuz i don’t think much of them ama l mara hedhi it sounded lowkey judgemental mais talafet w aaditeha b dhaka eventho it weirded me out a lil bit. Baad mchina 9aadna fi bank w bdet tahkili out of nowhere aala a couple fi l uni mte3na w kifeh el the girl dima telbss fi debach 3eryen w tousefli fih bl details w 9aada t9oul hedha lkol bch t9o3ed temchi 9odem her bf bch houwa yoghezrelha w kifeh dima maa baadhhoum w yhadhnou fi baadhhoum w they kiss w literally 9alt “elli fih el douda wl kabt ymchi l hotel ma yjich l hne 9odem ness 9elt torbiya.“ OKAY, FIRST OF ALL ik the cpl w dima win nrahoum nhesshoum cute w la nehar hassit l tofla lebssa haja over yaani hweyjha normal for her country and wtf is wrong with hugging her bf or even kidding him? She’s not even a Muslim, and hugging a bf doesn’t mean ensen aandou kabt jensi w ghar2ez yheb ysaybha w SECOND OF ALL, tra fiya ena zeda nelbess kima tofla hedhika somehow cuz we both don’t dress up modestly according to her ama 9elt dhou9 ennk tji tsebha aala haka khatr nhess elli saba mwajeha liya w kn aandk mochkol maaya kifeh nlbss maach tahki maaya w kahw sayb salah.
W baad ma kaml hket aala l cpl hedheka 9amt tahkili aala cpl tounsi ratehoum kissing in the bib w kifeh this yfasdelna som3tna 9odem l chou3oub l okhra. Lehna i was got pissed w mch aarfa kifeh najmt nched aasabi w ma na9echehch aala khatr ech mdakhlk fihoum they kissed wala le oumourhoum literally oumourhoum w mahouch aaychin fi bled mouselma bch tji tofrodh aalihoum the islamic rules. W zid wtf is wrong with kissing? Kn jet makeout session okay i understand khatr had ma yheb yra a makeout session fi l bib mais juste the girl gave her bf a simple goodbye kiss and left. Aman brabi, idha ken enti yesser tethasses mn ness ki y3ichou f mode de vie mokhtalef yesser aalik aaleh jeya l bled mouch mouselma? Maw ched bledk wala emchi khalij or idk? Sinon kn cpl tounsi kissed each other idk how this ruins our image? It’s just a kiss bro grow up it’s not that big of a deal w both of them are adults yaamlou elli yhbou aalih ma ydakhlekch. W wtf is this hypocrisy yaani? Ik other morrocan girls yelbsou el 9ssir w 3arya w normal and they have bfs w yeskrou w yaamlou kol chy so mch ken kol wehd yetwalha b khorm bledou khir non? asslan kona nahkiw ala l 9raya w ta9ess ech dakhl el cpls? W gossiping about others doesn’t make you a better mouslem either tbh it just makes you look like someone full of hatred cuz a good mouslem would’ve looked away and kept going with his life w kahaw.
(And this is a not hate post towards morrocans cuz i have a lot of morrocan friends and also relatives and even dated a morrocan guy once)
Ama berrasmi el narrow minded ppl ykarzouni mch normal aman. Kn bch tmchi t3ich fi bled mahech mouselma ma tnajmch tmchi lwehd aaych feha w t9olou la ma tochrobch birra w ma tbousech sahebtk aala khatr it bothers me w fi nafss el wa9t ma ynajmch wehd mouch mouslem ymchi l bled mouslema y9oul l mra lebsa hijeb le nahih ma aajbnich w y9oul ll ness sakrou aaliya el quran khatr ma aajbnich. LITERALLY kn bch tmchi l bled lezmk t acceptiha kifeh houma aaychin w tsakr fomk w kn aandk commentaire khayb khabih l rouhek.
Sinon this is not the first time i hear this girl judging others khatr mara nahki maaha 9amet tdhemli fi tofla aamla piercings fi wejha and idunno if also this one was an indirect insult to me or not cuz i have lots of piercings ama fi wedhnaya mouch wejhi and idk kn ratehoum khatr dima mghotyn b chaari. W mara 9amet t judgi fi tfol khatrou juste lebss chwaya artistic. W marra bch nmchi no93ed bahdheha fi l bib yekhi hkltli aala tofla knt 9aada 9odemha kifeh taaml fi l hess w tetharek barcha w aggressive mais wa9tli el tofla rajaat 9aadt 9odemha riteha literally ma aamlt chy so i just think she was just judging her cuz she was African w literally 9alt klem ma yet9alch mtaa wtf berraghem elli hiya bideha samra so wtf is your point now?
Anyway this was my rent and i think imma stop interacting with this person cuz i dont have respect for her anymore.
So yeah I‘m a girl and I‘m a picky eater who refuses to eat lots of food but I LOVE rass el aalouch however lately i‘ve been scared to admit that to ppl cuz i get judged sooo hard for it😭😭 like can’t a girl just enjoy some rass el aalouch?!!
If someone who doesn’t eat it judges me it pisses me off sometimes, but i got used to it somehow. However when it comes to guys who eat it it’s a different story (especially if it’s a guy i‘m dating)😭😭 like every time when i‘m talking to a guy and he mentions that he eats rass el aalouch, i get excited and tell him “yeahh same i love it so much“, he starts to look at me in a very judgemental way and it kills the vibe😭😭 i swear to god they look at me in weird way as if i started rapping in Chinese like sorry ? Why am i getting judged for eating the same thing that you like ?
Just let ppl enjoy rass el aalouch without judgement please 😭😭😭
I’ve been noticing lately a lot of Tunisian men having their ears pierced. I lowkey didn’t expect this tbh so i was curious on how they got popular among guys.
Ps: I’m not shaming or judging. I myself have up to 10 piercings in my ears cuz I’m a big piercing lover and planning on adding more hopefully :)