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Recently I've been seeing a lot of religious influencers and a lot of people from gen z are encouraging marrying at a young age.

I do get that in Islam the earlier you get married the better so u can avoid forbidden sexual relationships. Also I do get that marrying at a young age will make you more mature and responsible and careful about ur future.

But gotta admit, our time is tough. Marrying someone at 22 or even 25 is kinda of impossible in today's society. Do any calculations you want you cannot afford a family at such a young age else you are already living of ur parents wealth and daddy has a fully funded project for u.

Also people saying "get married and have kids god will send you their sustenance". Come on we gotta be a lil bit realistic here.

Our time is a lot different than the prophet's.

A social media influencer talked about this subject and was encouraging young gen to get married so I replied with the arguments I stated here and this was his reply :

"لازم عقيدة سليمة"

"فتعلم القران

فآدرس العقيدة

فستجد الاجابة وحدك"

"(كان مافهمتش اجابتي يعني بالرسمي هذيكا الإجابة و كان وعيتها، فطبّقها و ربي ييسّرر امورك )"

Is this dude fr ??

This is the worst question dodge I've ever seen. Or maybe he did explain and I missed something?

Anyway this all what I have in mind feel free to share ur thoughts.

J’ai un budget de 56000dt. Pensez vous qu’il serait mieux d’acheter une voiture électrique ou bien une KIA picanto automatique ou bien penser à une voiture d’occasion ?

I don’t know if this will be accepted, but I’m trying to create a small space for people who want to talk about what can happen to us as humans.

I’m starting: I’ve just had the worst year of my life, although I was able to land a well paying job, be independent despite my disability and travel, I suffered from mixed bipolar episodes (anxious but active) as a result I decided with my doctor to taper off the SSRi antidepressant
I became instantly depressed but we agreed I’ll fight it, I ended up with socd (sexual ocd) which gave me ideas and images about the worst stuff I could muster ( which is the way ocd works, gives you subjects that you are against) I became scared and felt alone, thoughts of sexual violence, borderline 🍇. It made me sick to my stomach, I felt dirty, I felt worthless, I felt ashamed and lonely.

I called my sister when I was about to end it, she’s a doctor and advised me what to do, I got diagnosed and most of all, I was told I’m not a bad person, it’s my brain firing up the wrong way. That finally gave me peace after suffering since march 2025..

I’m doing better, the thoughts are disappearing completely (and I can differentiate the and label them as my brain malfunctioning),

It’s the scariest feeling I’ve felt, I was scared of being a sicko or a weirdo. I’m back to who I am but I’m still picking up the pieces of the year that I had..

What was your lowest point? How did you get back up?

Ps:If this doesn’t get posted, I apologize if it goes against community guidelines.

I know everyone is chasing " startups" or the next big investment but i like traditional businesses they're sooo underrated

N7eb n3rf cost of starting a mlwei business making sandwiches and maybe some juice

What is the total cost

I just need to vent for a second for the girls (melkitech sub girls in tunisia)

Ik not all men w there's interesting guys i talked to, but honestly thought this only happened on Facebook. I always imagined Reddit was full of interesting people who just wanted to talk about ideas or random topics.

Every time someone DMs me, I answer em, I don't mind chatting with strangers. Then, after a few messages, the conversation somehow takes a se**** or flirty turn, and I end up blocking them.

Does this happen to other women too? Sometimes it feels like there's no place where you can just exist without someone trying to turn a normal conversation into something else. Not on social media, not on Reddit, not outside ? Like win ncheb belehi?

Is this a common experience here?

How to get over s.o I truly love ?????????

تصاور فيها دم ⚠️

سلام عليكم شباب بالله تعرضت لبركاج من مجموعة و تضربت بسيف على راس و يدين و سقين و عمل شهادة طبية موثقة كل شيء باش يفوكولي موطور و تلفون و عرفت منهم شكون شكيت بيه تو عندي 7 شهور و مصار شيء نحب نعرف شنية نعمل و ضروفي المادية متسمحش نعمل محامي اقسم بالله واحد تقهر منعرش ولينا نعيشوا في غابة قريب نتقتل على جال موطور شكيت في مركز في القليم في المحكمة القانون في تونس واحد يحسو كتيبة كهو و الله واحد من نهارتها يخرج يديه على قلبوا لشارع

Melli khdhit lbac wena nes2el ala les facs w les spécialités lmawjoudin enehou khir w kol . Elli nes2lou y9oli sayeb alik mel prepa w engineering ( famma chkn deja eng w kalheli) w aamel haja okhra pharmacie walla fremet walla hatta ihec .
A ce point diplome eng maylka maya3mel bih?
Sinon chneya spécialités eli ynajmou y3icjou l9odem?

Ena n7eb na3ml online subscriptions (Spotify / claude / google /...) w ki jit nchouf el CTI l9it fam li mechya m3ah bl behi w fam li yetchaka minha w zid ta9rib lezem tax declaration. W redotpay hiya fl noire donc est ce que feha risque wela ?

Chnou raykom w chnou les documents illi lezmin bech na3ml CTI ? w kifech nsob fi redotpay?

Thank you !

Ena l best friend mtei ma habetch temchi maaya nakdhi hajet ll projet mtei m’en laswek mtaa tounes l aasma ( base khater arkhes donc yse3edni khir) katli li heya te3ba w dra chnw alors que zouz vacance la aandha stage w la chay literally hata chay dima kaada f dar w sa3aaaaaat nokhrjou

Ena mnaarech tounes l 3asma w ma naarech hâta fin nalka blasa nhot fiha l karhba w Eli yosknou ghadi yaarfou kadeh s3iba w kadeh dima m3ebya w omri ma mchit ll aswek kbal

La7la7t biha koltleha hâta Ala khatri le ? Rani naarfhech l blasa w nkhaf katli samahni w le wkol

Lahkika men kbila wena nebki ghadhetni barcha enou akreb nes lik tekefch maak fi haja bsita kima haka wkteli taarfni Nkhaf barcha menha l blasa w kbira donc ndhi3 facilement alakal yabda maaya chkoun dima adhmen

ghadhetni barcha barcha khater ken jit naaref l blasa w naaref fin nhot l karhba w mestensa ma nkalakch laabed donc minich aarfa chnw l maw9ef li nekhdhou thesouni j exagère wala fi blasti ttghchch

( brabi mnghir klem yajrah déjà halti hlila)

I am 16 years old boy, i live in monastir in a muslim household, my parents and siblings are religious but last year i became non religious, it’s been a tough road telling my parents about it was really difficult, they tried to help me find god again by making me visit a sheikh but i wasn’t convinced, this non religious thing has a reason. This is where things get complicated it’s jot just about not thinking that god exists but it’s deeper than that, since 5th grade i had some kind of a crush on a friend of mine, and he was also a boy, i never admitted it because i still believed in god,i used to pray every night for god to fix me and make the whole thing goes away, but it never worked, for the next years i didn’t really care about it that much, the feelings for the guy never faded away matter of fact they got stronger, and i developed more feelings for other guys and girls
In 9th grade i was convinced that i was bisexual, however i didn’t leave islam immediately, the next year was the year i left not only because of that but after searching a lot my whole perspective changed, i wish i could tell my family about my sexual orientation but i’m too scared, i feel like a disappointment to my father mostly because he expects a lot from me. I told about 6 friends that i’m Bi and none of their reactions were bad they accepted it and told me they will keep it a secret. Please if you have any advice tell me, if you’re going to hate, keep it to yourself. I feel like I’m rejected by god, by my parents and by my whole society. Somehow i feel coming out will make me feel relieved, the burden of hiding it is just too heavy i can’t hold it much longer. I need help ASAP

Hello,

Il y a deux ou trois mois, un homme est venu me draguer lors de mon voyage en Tunisie. Il ne m’avait pas tapé dans l’œil au premier abord, mais quand on a commencé à parler, je l’ai trouvé plutôt mignon, et on a fini par passer nos journées à discuter.

J’ai passé le reste de mes vacances avec lui, puis je suis retournée en France. À savoir qu’il souhaite rester en Tunisie et qu’il a sa propre entreprise.

Il était attentionné, etc. On a parlé non-stop pendant deux ou trois mois. Récemment, il a eu un accident de voiture avec un défaut d’assurance et il était recherché par la police. Concernant l’accident, il n’a pas menti : on a passé la soirée au téléphone lorsqu’il était à l’hôpital. Mais concernant le fait qu’il était recherché par la police, ça, je ne sais pas.

Il m’a prévenue de ne pas le contacter pendant un moment, jusqu’à ce qu’il le fasse de lui-même. J’ai même le contact de son frère. Mais hier, il a posté une photo sur Instagram. Je lui ai envoyé un message sur tous ses réseaux : zéro réponse. Son frère, qui me répondait habituellement, m’a simplement laissé un vu lorsque je lui ai envoyé la photo.

Je lui ai donc envoyé un long message pour lui dire ce que je ressentais. Je pense que je dois passer à autre chose, mais j’ai encore l’espoir qu’il revienne. Je lui trouve mille et une excuses. Pourtant, je trouve ça anormal, ce n’était pas dans son comportement habituel. On a eu des conversations profondes, etc.

Tout ça pour dire qu’aujourd’hui, j’ai la boule au ventre et mal au cœur. Je ne lui souhaite que du malheur s’il m’a ignorée volontairement, parce que je ne comprends pas. J’ai juste besoin d’explications. Je ne voulais pas m’attacher, j’étais hyper méfiante… et pourtant, me voilà.

Edit; Je l'ai supprimé de partour et j'ai supprimé toutes nos conversations pour ne pas retourner dessus mais c'est compliqué de ne pas continué à le pister

Salem chabeb,
I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, and I’d really appreciate your opinions and experiences.

I’m 26 years old, currently working as a DevOps engineer in Tunisia. I have an engineering degree and a stable job with a decent salary enough for a modest family life الحمدلله. However, I’ve always been interested in medicine, and I’m wondering whether it’s still realistic to pursue that dream.

I got 15.19 in the 2018 Bac Sciences Exp, and I’m considering studying medicine (or PhD part time) somewhere in Western Europe (possibly while working a devops job there to survive) with the goal of eventually becoming a doctor (Neuro, Vet or dentist).

My questions are:
Is this realistically possible at my age?
What countries offer a feasible path for someone with my background?
Would I have to start medicine from year one, or are there alternative pathways?
Has anyone here, or someone you know, made a similar career change from engineering (or another field) into medicine?
How difficult would this be financially and administratively?

One important detail: I’m married, and my wife is still studying, so that’s another factor I need to consider.

I’m looking for honest advice, success stories, warnings, or anything else that could help me make an informed decision. If you’ve been through something similar or know someone who has, I’d love to hear about it.
Thank you!