u/Ni_nou1

i really wanna know what goes through the mind of people who ghost, i mean im not saying that i’ve never ghosted someone YES unfortunately i did but only when using a dating Apps or maximum after a first date i know its still bad and i stopped doing it but i feel like if you go out on multiple dates and got to know each other even if you are not in a relationship a discussion needs to be made if you wanna stop getting to know the other person unless you are too afraid and can’t communicate for me its just immature but would like to know if you ghost after multiple dates What was going through your mind?

both of my parents are depressed, they live in the same house but separated and thats not the problem, i think the main issue is money we dont have money because my dad is depressed and my dad is depressed because we dont have money so its just a loop. Both of them stayed home the whole year no job no hobbies nothing just on there phone, i dont know what to do im in my 20’s so obviously my job is not enough and i feel like i shouldn’t be spending my money on the house (obviously i need to help but also live my life) i feel guilty for spending it on my self but at the same time its not my responsibility and i really want to help them but they dont wanna help themselves and i just dont know what to do, my dad even makes some suicidal jokes bit idk if they are actually jokes