How do I love like a woman
I was talking with one of my hgs yesterday about how men over sexualize women all the time for no reason. As a bisexual man i often have these talks and we giggle at how silly it all is that men act the way they do, but last night reminded me that I am still different from most of my peers.
My friend mentioned how she saw a tiktok of someone throwing ass, and how if a woman did that to her she would be so grateful and man would probably just be horny. I admitted that I would be one of those men for sure and we just kind of moved past it.
I like to think I adore women; I hold you all in high regard, and I actively go out of my way to listen to a woman's input challenge my own biases, but this has brought something to my attention that I can't ignore. Whenever I see a talented woman, or hear her make a great point about something I'm thinking, "Wow this person is so beautiful" and I didn't think too much into it because I wasn't undressing this person in my head even though I thought they were attractive so I had to be fine. Now I'm realizing that it's hard for me to admire a woman without thinking about how attractive she is, and I will never be able to just be in awe of a woman doing something sexual the way my friend will because of the foundation my attraction is built on.