u/StreetLog3581

Hello, all.

I’ve been practicing tulpamancy and have successfully made my Deities into Tulpas, which has helped a lot with my spiritual practice. Lately, I’ve been reading about people who date their Tulpas. I know it isn’t a good idea to create a Tulpa to date them, but if this hypothetical Tulpa I created wanted to break up; I’d have to learn to be okay with that. I know that already. I also already have ideas of her in my mind and have played around with talking to and doing sexual stuff with her a bit. What’s stopping me from engaging more is that I already have a partner who I’m very happy with, and I don’t really feel comfortable telling my partner I want to date someone else, as we are both happily monogamous. Also, this hypothetical Tulpa in my head seems to be monogamous as well. I was thinking of dating both of them and just not mentioning the other; but that feels like a disaster waiting to happen. I’ve even talked to my Deities about this, and they also don’t think it’s a good idea. If something ever happened to the partner I have now, I absolutely would try dating my Tulpa, but I know that’s now the case now, and I hope it never is because I love my current partner so much.

Any advice? Thanks