Is this love bombing? (F24/m25)
I (24f) have been dating my bf (25m) for a month now. I have a long history of picking abusive partners (not intentionally of course), so i’m doubting myself and unsure if this is love bombing or just a healthy emotionally mature man.
As I’ve said, we’ve been seeing each other for a month and he’s asked me to be his girlfriend last week. This is quite early for me but I’ve said yes.
He’s brought me flowers on our third date, he’s paid for and planned down to the last detail all of our dates. He helped me move to a new apartment as I had an unexpected problem with my last one, been texting me every day and calling multiple times a week. He has sent me cute but kinda cringe reels a couple times (things like “send this to the most beautiful girl you know to remind her to drink water” etc.)
I do like him a lot, but this is all a bit much for me, I feel like this is too fast and intense to where I’m l at in the relationship, but it’s also possible I’ve experienced way too much trauma in relationships and just don’t know how to handle it because of my emotional wounds.
Any advice and perspective will be very appreciated