u/Striking-Seesaw-1792

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately. We always talk about how love changes us, makes us softer, or teaches us how to care. But honestly? For me, it was grief.

​Love made me feel high, sometimes a bit selfish, and always wanting more. But grief? Grief absolutely broke my ego. It stripped away all the pretense and left me completely humbled. It taught me how fragile everything is, how deeply people can hurt, and how important it is to just be kind to everyone you meet, because you never know what heavy burden they are carrying.

​It completely rewired how I look at relationships and connections now. I don’t care about superficial things anymore; I just value genuine, peaceful energy.

​Has anyone else experienced this? Does grief change your perspective on life and love completely, or is it just me?

I’ve been thinking a lot about this lately. We always talk about how love changes us, makes us softer, or teaches us how to care. But honestly? For me, it was grief.

​Love made me feel high, sometimes a bit selfish, and always wanting more. But grief? Grief absolutely broke my ego. It stripped away all the pretense and left me completely humbled. It taught me how fragile everything is, how deeply people can hurt, and how important it is to just be kind to everyone you meet, because you never know what heavy burden they are carrying.

​It completely rewired how I look at relationships and connections now. I don’t care about superficial things anymore; I just value genuine, peaceful energy.

​Has anyone else experienced this? Does grief change your perspective on life and love completely, or is it just me?

Yaar, maine kaafi time se ek cheez notice ki hai aur socha aaj aap logo se pooch hi loon.

Reddit par jitni bhi profiles, selfie threads, ya dps dekho... mujhe lagta hai yahan sirf do hi qisam ke log hain:

1. The Greek Gods/Goddesses:Jo itne khoobsurat hain ke lagta hai galti se Hollywood/Bollywood ki jagah Reddit par account bana liya. Absolute 10/10.

2. The Self-Deprecating Crew:Jo khud ko itna ugly bolte hain ke lagta hai bas dunya khatam ho chuki hai unke liye.

Mujhe sach batayein, kya iss dunya mein "average-looking" log khatam ho gaye hain? Wo log jo na toh bht haseen hain ke raste chalte log murr murr kar dekhein, aur na hi itne bure hain ke aaina dekh kar khud hee darr jayein. Just plain, normal, comfortable 5/10 ya 6/10.

Agar aap bhi iss extreme khoobsurati aur extreme ugliness ke beech wali state (the middle ground) mein kahin aate ho... toh please neeche comment karo taake mujhe sukoon mile ke main akela nahi hu yahan! 😂Rate your self. 👇👇👇 . . . ? /10

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