I have achieved change, but now I'm in this dilema.
I need help with a moral dilema.
So my situation is that I never had a girlfriend or any relationship and now I found this girl that I'm kinda dating.
But for a while now I've been talking with two of my (incel) friends about women and objectifying them and having a very misogynistic opinion on them, but now that I'm in a relationship I don't know if I should keep on going with this mindset around them or if I should just come forth with my relationship.
Our friendship might be in danger if I do so. They aren't bad friends or anything, they're smart, funny and chill to hang around with, so I don't want to end the friendship just because of this.
I've tried to shift their opinions on women, but their just really against thet idea, saying that I've been "manipulated by those FO|DS"
I want to try just telling them but I don't want to ruin our friendship, as I said before.
What do I do?