u/SubstantialBat8539

Isang oras?

Isang oras?

I know this is nitpicking or ano pa, pero I genuinely wonder kung stupid lang ba talaga siya or hindi na naman ito napansin ng editors. AGAIN.

5:30 PM na. May pickleball session sila from 6:00 - 8:00 PM, tapos may 1 hour pa daw sila.

So… HOW? Saan niya ipapasok yung one hour? 🫪

Hindi na talaga nagma-math. Or baka ako lang? 😂

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 2 days ago

Talaga ba?

Na para bang palaging healthy mga choices niya sa food. 😅

When has he ever chosen a healthy option? Black coffee without syrup lang yata yung closest thing to healthy niya.

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 9 days ago

“Proud to share with you.”

Talaga? Ngayon pa? Sa daming inconsistencies and mistakes sa previous vlogs mo? Ngayon ka pa mag quality control?

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 16 days ago

Gitna

Sino ba gumawa ng ngipin niya para nauwi sa ganyang main character na isang malaking ngipin sa gitna? Or born with it talaga?

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 1 month ago

“Sarap uminom ng tubig.”

Sarap pala uminom ng tubig no? Lalo na after ma-call out na halos hindi ka na umiinom. 🤣

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 1 month ago

iPad Kid

Ilang beses na siyang na-call out dahil grabe niyang ipa-iPad si Baby Z. Pero of course, add the link for income?

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 2 months ago

Kasalanan ni Editor?

BG, do you review your videos before posting? NO.

I rarely watch his videos now so my friend sent me this because I wanted her to see if she observes something. She said "does he have struggles with his speaking abilities?" Hahaha

It is also proof (besides the many cuts in his videos) that he struggles putting his thoughts into words properly because he needs to repeat what he says.

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 2 months ago

Maganda ang view

Siya pala ang view. 🥹

Matagal na rin naman nating napapansin ito sa mga vlogs niya. Hindi niya talaga alam kung paano i-showcase ang ganda ng isang lugar. Kaya siguro kahit magaganda ang destinations niya, hindi pa rin tumatapat ang kalidad ng videos niya sa mga magagaling na vloggers ngayon.

Dagdag mo pa ang sandamakmak na filler clips, pa-cute na mukbang shots, at mga montages na wala namang malinaw na purpose. Imbes na ang lugar ang bida, parang siya pa rin ang laging sentro ng eksena. 😅

Okay to be fair, after his clip of Bondi beach, he showed the waves of Bondi beach pero yun lang hahaha

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 2 months ago

“The Late…”

BG, first, we know you used “The Late ____” because you wanted to emphasize that FT was late, right? You’re always preaching about respecting people’s time. Funny how there’s animosity when it’s someone else, but when it’s you, suddenly you’re all demure and forgiving.

Second, in case you didn’t know, “the late” before a person’s name commonly means that the person has passed away.

This is exactly the kind of spontaneous word vomit that no scriptwriter could ever salvage.

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 2 months ago

It's never just about the donut. 🍩 (Sorry po mataas ang post.)

Context: I (36F) have been with my bf (34M) for 3 years, 4 years, if umabot, this May. I come from a well off family. I got a stable VA job that pays well and I'm an ESL teacher in 2 companies as a side hustle. I don't want to rely on my family's money. I strive to have my own. He has a daughter, doesn't have a job (he labeled himself as "tambay"). So to help, I pay his bills, give money to help him out while he tries to put himself together (he said he has depression and anxiety). You can see where this is going, lahat dates ako gastos, overnights, ako lahat. Sige, fine, love ko. Also, we're LDR kahit 5 hours away by bus, di niya kaya ma travel kasi walang pera and mapapagod siya sa biyahe. It's mostly me traveling to him or meet up in the middle but it rarely happens. When we meet up, ako gagastos. I helped with their bills as well, even help a bit with her daughter's schooling. I don't have a problem kasi okay naman yung bata and I don't have a problem at all. It's not the child's fault her parents's relationship didn't work out.

Now, he started a piggery and meatshop business with his friend and invested his savings in it. ALL of his savings. He didn't tell me he would do that. So now, the business is struggling, madaming naguutang, di pa nila ma collect. Need nila magpa ihaw to sell meat so ako muna nag bigay for that, his pigs in the piggery are growing and he doesn't have money for that so ako muna. It's been like that for the past 2 months.

Addition, he lost his mom last year and I did what I could to help with the hospital bills and his food while he was the watcher. Di naman malaki na help ko but I did try what I could do.

Again, I'm a giver (will be my downfall probably hahaaay). But as they say, givers need to be careful since most people will abuse them. Anyway, in the beginning, I was okay financing it since I could manage. However, in March this year, my diabetes required a more expensive injection. Plus I had my own bills to pay plus his and their food. That's why I've been having a hard time supporting him. I told him that this May baka di na ako maka help masyado financially.

>Pic 1: Since he started his business, he has been going home all tired and wala lang man update pero malaman ko na lang in some days he is playing ML with his friends, nakipag inuman and the other day, nakipag hang out sa friend niya (yan sa chat na about). I don't have a problem at all if he does that pero update lang naman sana about it. Also, we're LDR, kahit 30 mins sana na bebe time lang para maganahan ako sa trabaho while I work late nights, wala. Hahaha He things the issue is only that small thing, na remember ko yung tiktok about a girl breaking up with her bf because he didn't buy her a donut. Akala talaga nila yun lang yun? How hard is it to give reassurance ba? Di naman ako nag rerequire na mala Shakespeare ang atake sa words. Simple lang naman like "pagod akoa ha, tulog na ako, love you." THAT? Sabi niya he is so tired that when he gets home he doesn't eat na and diretso na slee. Okay I get that pero mahirap ba na pag morning "sorry naka tulog" like? Is it too much? Ang sabi ko lang sa kanya was that this is totally different experience from what I went through with my past relationships (I've never been the one to give but I was the one given something but they had their own issues as well). I'm trying to get used to the one being the provider.

>Pic 2: I'm the kind of girl who loves flowers, enjoys quality time and conversations and sometimes, being shown off is good. Yung alam ko na proud siya to have me. He is nonchalant. So I have gradually removed those from my system. Valentine's day this year. I always believed that men should also receive flowers. It's not just for women. I would love to send him flowers but his place doesn't have on that delivers (or maybe meron ayaw niya lang?) I understand wala siyang budget, in our whole relationship, once lang yan nag bigay. I understand kasi yun nga, financially struggling. This year, I drew him and his daughter a flower na may animation na "Happy Valentine's Day" and sent it to their respective messenger.

>Pic 3: That was in 2023, his ex decided to chat some hurtful things to me. I told him about her. Instead of trying to defend me, he accused me of making things up. Na hinayaan niya daw ako ma insulto nang ex niya. This ex has been chatting and emailing me in the beginning of our relationship. Siya yung type na di maka get over. I blocked her na kasi kahit fb nang work ko before sa university, she would comment mean things about me. Ganyan na reaction niya. I asked him to talk to his ex and clean it up because ayaw ko nang ganyan.

If you ask me why I chose him, he was great in the beginning. Tama nga sila, mabuti lang sa umpisa. Now, I feel drained and tired about everything. I'm slowly feeling like I'm a different person. I miss the old me parang kailangan ko limitahan sarili ko para di siya ma uncomfortable or ma pressure. He's pushing we live together na kasi mas maalagaan niya ako and he knows how to endure the hardships. I told him na he is already struggling and he wants me to add to that equation? Right now, I'm with my mom because she's a senior and she manages the family business as well. I try to help when I can so food and electricity is taken care of but I also do my part to help and contribute here as well. In this economy, living together and ako lang ang may income, it doesn't make sense. They say love endures all, dapat kahit sa struggles you choose each other pero parang iba na to eh.

Yun lang. It's NEVER about just a small thing. It's a compilation of many small things or needs not being met. Nakakapagod. Baka mahirap talaga akong mahalin and I'm asking too much? Hahahuhu

Note: I'm not good using Tagalog. Sorry po. 😅

u/SubstantialBat8539 — 4 months ago