r/MayNagChat

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Tanungin mo about computers, at siguradong masasagot niya. Paglaruin mo ng pc and mobile games, bubuhatin ka niya. Pero dabest pa rin yung mga panahong loading siya.

Kaya mahal na mahal ko tong nerd na to eh. 😂❤️

Hi. Just wanna share kung paano manggulat bf ko. For reference, I am here in Bulacan, WFH. Siya naman sa QC. Nagta-trabaho yung tao tapos biglang may tatawag, nasa kanto niyo na. Like, teka?? Di pa nga ko naliligo e. 😂😭

Kaloka no di talaga nag-iisip or nagbabasa tong mga horny dito sa reddit. Sakit sa ulo 🤬

It's me and 8 yrs old daughter. Yes, sa discord kami naguusap kasi para nakakapagstream ako ng games sa kaniya pero ako lang naman friend niya diyan. She's with my parents in Baguio and me working here sa Cavite. We have the same internet humor hahahaha ang cute nga kasi sa pinterest siya nagsscroll ng mga memes HAHAHAHAHAHA

1. Nagsabi si mama na may heart enlargement sya. Biggest heartbreak ever.

2. Nalaman ko na may chinat ang partner ko para mag "inquire" kuno at nag iinitiate makipagkilala sa isang gwapong microinfluencer. Pero ang tanong nya ay pwede naman igoogle. Nung kinonfront ko, todo deny na interesado sya dun. Hanggang ngayon ang sakit sakit pa rin.

Both happened in the same week.

Context: Our argument started bc we were discussing his childhood best friend. They are both European, btw. This is someone he has years of deep history and brotherhood with. The issue is that this friend’s moral compass is incredibly flawed. He openly disrespects women, treats cheating as if it's completely acceptable (my bf knows he is cheating on his gf), and holds this twisted double standard that it's fine for men to be unfaithful bc "men can separate sex from love, but women can't.”

My boyfriend doesn't agree with these actions. In fact, he tells me that he always calls out his friend and tries to talk sense into him when they hang out. But to me, that isn't enough anymore. He calls him out, but at the exact same time, he tolerates him.

This has opened up a much bigger, heavier argument between us about friendship, integrity, and values. My boyfriend insists that bc they have been through everything together, he could never consider ending the friendship or walking away over his friend's personal life. He views the cheating and the misogyny as a separate lane that doesn't affect their loyalty to each other. But I told him that by continuing to tolerate this guy, acting as his normal best friend, and giving him a safe audience to vent his toxic logic, he is passively condoning it. For me, true accountability means showing someone that their actions have real world consequences. When a person realizes they can treat people horribly but still keep the respect and presence of friends in their life, they feel safe to keep doing it. I learned firsthand that sometimes, tolerating someone’s bad behavior doesn't help them, it just keeps them comfortable in their toxicity.

My boyfriend is a genuinely good, honorable guy, and I know his intent is just to be a loyal, supportive brother. But I feel like he is mistaking tolerance for kindness. It honestly worries me that he is willing to compromise his own standards to keep someone with such a massive lack of integrity in his inner circle.

Natawa lang ako dito sa dati kong kaklase na todo kung mang plastic sakin nung shs at lagi akong sinisiraan (basically bullied me), imagine after shs 3 yrs ago I already cut them off as in unfriend and unfollow. Tapos last December bigla syang nagchat sakin para manolicit para raw sa pageant kuno.

HARD PASS MALALA!!! after of all the traumas na tinamo ko sa pagiging bully nila ng iba pa naming kaklase before.

i live in manila diba? the past two times na umuwi ako sa province ko, my relationship/situationship with someone ends 😃 so i asked him before i left “should we talk ba kapag umuwi ako sa province? baka mag-end tayo eh” nireassure niya ‘ko and 3 DAYS IN MY PROVINCE, NAG END KAMI HUHUHU may sumpa ata talaga sakin yung province ko !! T..T i have laufey’s concert pa on the 27th so perfect timing ha???? iiyakan ko nang malala yung silver lining kasi i dedicated it to him.

but if ever man you see this, js know na i still don’t feel any puot towards you. nakakaiyak, pero sobrang naiintindihan kita. sana gumaan na bigat na nararamdaman mo soon :(( i really hope na one day we meet again and all of this will make sense by then. na i’ll look back to this day and say that this was necessary so we could become better for each other. but for now, sabi mo nga, we need to face our reality.

i won’t mind though if one day i drift into some sort of day dream where we were strong enough to fight beside each other. ‘till next time, e.

saw this on threads HAHAHAHAHA napakababaw talaga ng kaligayahan ko. 😹

basta nagtanong na yan ng "what do you feel like for dinner?" may kasunod na magpapa alam for a beer lol. kabisado na kita boi! 😆

Cute lang, he sent a random message kasi yung background ng messenger namin is us holding hands.
Salamat, Lord talaga 🙈🥰🥹

Hindi ko alam if tama yung flair.

[attached ss from random numbers]

Lagi akong nakakakuha ng random texts from random numbers pero I think same person lang gumagamit nun.

Spam after spam yung ginagawa nila every month idk what to do na.

Also, to add wla akong utang or whatsoever kasi sabi ko sa sarili ko never ko gagayahin parents ko na puro utang and hindi nmn marunong mag manage ng pera nila

And nag start yung mga ganyan na messages last year pa, may nag message sakin ng death threats dahil daw may utang yung friend ko tapos pagconfront ko sa friend ko wla daw sya utang and sya daw yung nagpapautang and hindi daw nya pinautang yung tao. I think rin na pinautang nya tapos hindi pa nakakabayad then magb-borrow ulit. Hindi ako sure sa full context nun pero after that lagi na may nagmemessage sakin unknown numbers. I don't know much about sa online borrows etc kasi student pa ako and hindi nmn ako nangungutang. Ang pinaka nai-"utang" ko nga is 20 pesos tapos pinalitan ko agad.

Nakakaworry na yung mga spams. what should I do po? any advice is appreciated huhu

not sure if this is the right sub for this since technically, hindi naman siya text but my ex had no other way to contact me rather than emailing me hahahahaha

for context, my ex was abusive in all forms. verbally, physically, emotionally, financially, sexually, mentally, yes. he checked all the boxes. perfect guy i guess

Stopped talking for a year, ako na nag iwas, sabi ko kahit wag na bayaran hiniram nya basta wag nalang ako kausapin ulit. A year later, nag message ulit.

Ano magandang reply dito? Hahahaha ayaw ko siyang kausapin pero sayang din pera HAHAHAHA

Tinulog ko na lang te.