u/ifyouwantmecomegetme

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Hi Reddit! 👋

We all have days when we just need someone to listen, whether it’s venting about stress, ranting about frustrations, yapping about random thoughts, or sharing stories you don’t feel comfy telling people you know.

That’s where I come in. Think of me as a less‑paid therapist (everything is wholesome and SFW).

I’ll give you a safe space, a listening ear, and honest opinions if you ask for them.

💬 What I offer:
Venting space — unload your thoughts without judgment.
Casual yapping — talk about anything under the sun.
Rant buddy — let it all out, I’ll listen.
Story sharing — sometimes you just want someone to hear you.
Relationship advice — based on real experiences, I’m opinionated and straightforward but caring.

💡 Why this matters:
You know there’s a real person on the other side.
You stay anonymous, chats can be on Reddit, and if you prefer voice, we can use Telegram for privacy.

It’s affordable: flat rate Php 250 to start.

This side gig helps me pay the bills, and honestly, why not earn from something my friends always commend me for, being a good listener and giving advice?
✨ Pent‑up emotions and stress are not good for you. You have to find an outlet or just express yourself, maybe I can help.

This is where it started. Your safe space, your voice, your story, all welcome here.

👉 Just reach out if you think this resonates with you.

A Mag move on sa long term relationship?
B Mag move on sa ALMOST or TOTGA?

Hi everyone! I’ve tried posting in a few subs before but didn’t really get the kind of responses I was hoping for, so I thought I’d give this community a try.

I’m currently working in risk analysis, with a background as a VA (Amazon/e‑commerce) and experience as a former BPO employee. On the side, I also do a bit of TikTok affiliate marketing.

I’m looking for a side hustle that can help with the bills, something I can do for a few hours after 3PM.

If you know of a side gig that really works and pays well, maybe you can whisper or recommend it here. I’d truly appreciate any suggestions or experiences you can share. Whether it’s freelancing, online gigs, or practical side hustles that fit into a busy schedule, I’m open to exploring. Thank you in advance for your insights! 🙏

My salary is just about bills and I would love to hear what you do to avoid insanity or the feeling of burnout

Green Flag pero Red Flag pala - Yung nagbibigay ng butterflies sa stomach mo, I realized what I need in my life gives me peace and makes me feel calm.
Red Flag pero Green Flag pala - may gaps sa reply minsan, ibig sabihin may life sila outside of the relationship hindi yung literal na nakatutok nalang sayo talaga at my sense of individuality pa din.

The answers i have stated are based on my experience and preference.

Siguro dahil nasanay na before sa toxic relationships. Ang dali kausap ng mga emotionally mature and emotionally available ng partner, like yun na yun? Walang rebuttal? 🤷‍♀️

Edit: Parang madami na-misunderstand ng humor ko sa post na to, I am grateful for him and I am not initiating any arguments with him.

For me, wag na masyadong isipin ung sasabihin ng iba kasi ikaw naman makikipag-relasyon hindi sila. Hindi lahat ng problema nio sa relationship, dapat alam ng family or friends mo, kasi iba ang dynamics ng nasa isang romantic relationship, iba ang level of understanding ng partner mo sayo and vice versa. What you and your partner can understand might be hard to understand for your family and friends. And I thank you!

Gusto ko lang isipin na magiging okay pa din ang lahat!

Ang hirap maging adult 🥹

Na-hospital kapatid ko and underwent surgery tapos ako ang nag-leave sa work para magbantay, 3 days din yun. Ako asikaso lahat, tapos ung tulugan hindi comfy, gets ko naman pero yung may makalimutan ako sa bahay nung umuwi ako para maligo (di ako comfy maligo dun sa hospital), kung ano ano na sinabi ng parents ko na para bang ginusto ko ung nakalimutan (printout ng Philhealth receipt) eto pa masaklap, pagbalik ko sa hospital, nadapa pa ako, may sugat ako both knees plus meron din sa siko. Pagod ka na, underappreciated ka pa, may sugat ka pa. Napapagod na din ako tlaga. Kayo ba mga ka-trentahin, may pagka-toxic din ba parents niyo?